I need HELP!!

[novembergurl]

okay, here' s my prob. whenever my b/f and i are going at it, he stops and decides it'd time for some manual work and it really freaking annoys me!! it' s like he's impatient about the whole thing and doesn't want to wait around to have an orgasm. it's annoying like hell! i don't mind the handjobs but i just want once to have either one of us orgasm during sex!! is that too much to ask for?? he wants to have sex but he doesn't want to wait to so long to orgasm. it' s like he doesn't understand that it'll take a while!!! how to approach him about this??

novembergurl:confused:

[Illusional]

tell him straight up. what the hell are you doing because once you stick it in, it is already considered sex. and if he's worried about cumming inside of you, there is always pre ejaculation that happens without him even feeling it. he might as well enjoy the situation because once he's started, he might as well end it. raverboy