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13-02-06, 09:52 PM
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| | | Sex when is it........... Here is a poll i wanted to see the answers.
How long is the average time from first date to haveing Sex?
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13-02-06, 11:35 PM
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| | | I don't know about average, but if it happens too fast, it dooms the realationship. | |
13-02-06, 11:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Gigabitch I don't know about average, but if it happens too fast, it dooms the realationship. I dont know about that. Sex doesnt inhearantly doom a relationship. I think all my relationships have included sex in approx 1 month.
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14-02-06, 01:08 AM
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| | | I don't know, I don't give it a certain amount of time.....I figure it happens when it happens. My first bf and I didn't have sex for a year (but I was a virgin then and wanted to be very sure....). ONe bf it was the first date, and one was within the first few weeks. Didn't seem to affect any of the relationships in a particular way.
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14-02-06, 03:54 AM
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| | | dunno , my 1st GF was a virgin and we did it for the 1st time about 3 months after we started dating ,.... and she used to say "not until marriage " .. ya right ... but we did last 15 months together . the 2nd was also a virgin ... it took me 2 weeks ... the relationship lasted 4 months . | |
14-02-06, 04:04 AM
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| | | I'm an adult, not a virgin and I've never dated a virgin. In my relationships that I know are going somewhere (ie not "one night stands" or hookups), I have typically waited about a month. In my current relationship, I waited until a month and a half after we met and 1 month and 5 days after our first date. We're almost to 4 months now and going strong. He says he would have had sex in the first week we were dating, it was all up to me- the girl. Of course. | |
14-02-06, 06:45 AM
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| | | Well my first bf(real bf, only have these two to go on) I waited 2 weeks(lasted 6 months), the current was a one nigth stand, I did not even expect him to call me the next day.......but he did. Been together ever since(which is only two months).
I don't really see why it would matter......the frist date or the 20th...I don't see a difference...sex is sex. | |
14-02-06, 07:14 AM
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Originally Posted by Cipher Here is a poll i wanted to see the answers.
How long is the average time from first date to haveing Sex?
Did you consider this to be too long or too short of a waiting period? 6 years, 5 months, 4 days , 5 hours, 13 minutes, and 38 seconds exactly or the relationship is doomed ...DOOMEED! ...DOOOOOOOMED!
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14-02-06, 07:49 AM
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| | | If she doesn't put out within the first 3 dates - bail.
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14-02-06, 08:05 AM
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| | | I'm with OV on this one, though I would factor in a margin of approximately 27 seconds.
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14-02-06, 01:16 PM
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Originally Posted by DutchBoY I'm with OV on this one, though I would factor in a margin of approximately 27 seconds. No wonder all my previous relationships failed 
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14-02-06, 09:51 PM
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| | | nice answers thanks for participating in this poll i myself do believe that Sex has a direct effect on a serious relationship. IMO have seen that haveing sex too early in a relationship adds a little undo stress as one or the other is bound to think wow that was quick maybe a little too quick. or maybe that you rushed into things and that is always thrown out there in the end. I feel if that you realy want things to work out with that person and have a long and prosperous relationship the longer the better but i have also seen waiting too long has dire consequences on one or the other thinking that they are not attractive to the other person. my 2 cents is there is a happy medium some were lol. | |
15-02-06, 06:07 PM
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| | | The longest I've waited is 3 days, it sounds bad but I'm definetely not a slapper. | | Loveforum Breaktime | | | | Loveforum also recommend - Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
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