lilwing not a virgin

[lilwing89]

im not joking i really lost my virginity last night to the same girl ive been inlove with all this time. ill always remember valentines day because i spent the most sacred moment in my life on that day.

she told me not to tell anyone about it and here i am on here telling you. well i had to tell because something happened.. im a bit worried.

#1 i didnt wear a condom. there was no condom around. but i didnt have an orgasm and i dont cum prematurely. i never cummed inside of her and she told me if i was about to, to get it out of there.. what are the chances she will get pregnant? i wasnt even closeto an orgasm.

#2 it was her idea, not mine. so we did it and after we did it she like was all quiet and she said that she is a really bad person for doing that.. is it normal to feel that way after the first time? like all guilty n crap? i sorta felt it too... and we both even cried for a bit. i know i love her because i still wanna be with her. i never wanna leave her. she had me promise her that i would neverleave her even if we were just friends. normal??

[gHEXjt]

Lilwing, everyone creates precum. And in response to her getting pregnant, the chances are probably slim, but you didn't wear a condom, so depending on where she is in her cycle could mean there's a slight chance.

[DutchBoY]

#2 it was her idea, not mine. so we did it and after we did it she like was all quiet and she said that she is a really bad person for doing that.. is it normal to feel that way after the first time? like all guilty n crap? i sorta felt it too... and we both even cried for a bit. i know i love her because i still wanna be with her. i never wanna leave her. she had me promise her that i would neverleave her even if we were just friends. normal??[/quote]


It was her idea??? How cowardly selfish is that? and then telling us how much you love her. Takes two to get together you know. Bleh!

[Tone]

I'ma smack you upside your head, boy...

After you were just talkin that mess about "We're going to wait until we're ready... because right now we couldn't support a baby... blah blah"

No one orgasm'd?? What a sucky first time! Damn you REALLY should have waited - because you just ****ed up.

[Kieran]

I think Tone was a bit harsh there but... he's right.. ish.

Shouldn't have happened mate.. and unfortunately it may be hard to get past the awkward feeling that you will now experience around her.

Turn to the goats... they are great.

[DutchBoY]

ye, goats own....bit more feisty than sheep

[Debunkt]

Nobody should feel guilty for that, so if she does, it means she wasn't ready. And what the **** does "not to leave her even if you're just friends" mean? If you're just friends, somebody obviously left somebody. Your girlfriend sounds crazier every time I hear about her. She ignores you and doesn't acknowledge you as a bf, and now acts like what she did was the most horrible thing in the world. This girl has insecurity issues out the ass.

[TAVS]

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Originally Posted by Tone

I'ma smack you upside your head, boy...

After you were just talkin that mess about "We're going to wait until we're ready... because right now we couldn't support a baby... blah blah"

No one orgasm'd?? What a sucky first time! Damn you REALLY should have waited - because you just ****ed up.

True. True.

[vashti]

I'm with Tone and TAVS. How disappointing. I hope she isn't pregnant.

[alice]

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Originally Posted by vashti

I'm with Tone and TAVS. How disappointing. I hope she isn't pregnant.

yep. me too.

[jaslovesant]

I hope you learnt your lesson, and if she is pregnant, don't blame it on anything else because it's both of your fault & condoms are avaliable just about everywhere... even if they chucked condoms in macdonalds happy meals it would'nt make a difference.

[clynn]

The chances are slim that she'll be pregnant. When was her last period?

Don't waste your time or hers on feeling guilty. Guilt is a completely useless emotion that won't do anybody any good. You both care about each other a lot and have been spending time together a lot so if it was going to happen....it was with someone you had special feelings about and that is a good thing. Maybe you jumped the gun, maybe. But you did it - so don't regret it.

Be really nice to her today. Make sure you phone her up and talk to her. She will feel vulnerable today.

And lots of people don't cum the first time.

Usually, once you've gone to this step....you can't go back to holding hands. So....go out and buy a box of condoms. And have her go visit her family doctor to let her doctor know that she is sexually active.

[Gigabitch]

Definitely don't do anything that she might construe as rejection. She sounds really fragile. Are you feeling guilty too?

[Late_vamp]

1st thing , if you dint cum and it was her 1st time , theres almost no chance that she can be preggy ... even if she had her ovulation . Nurses told my friend( a girl , i was there with her and my GF when she went to the clinic) that there is a little less chance the 1st couple of times of sex that she can get pregnant ...she still can , but considering you dint cum ... it should be fine .

2nd ... you and her shoulnt feel guilty , isnt that what you both wanted? yes , so why cry about it , be happy .

also , i believe the 1st time isnt appropriate to wear a condom , kills the sensation , you just popped her cherry , doesnt happen everyday , so you better feel it and enjoy instead of some piece of latex taking most of it . Plus condoms dont help when they are tight , seems to irritate them the 1st couple of times (taken from all my ex's opinions... yes i popped all of them). kills the moment also , "ahh lets make love ... no wait , i have to put this damn thing on 1st .............."

[vashti]

::rolling eyes::

Latevamp is a wealth of misinformation.