boring sex? - Love Forum

xwfuro · #1 (**permalink**) 06-03-06, 10:27 AM

ok well the girl i was seeing was not very outgoing in the first place but like she got better as our relationship... BUT everytime we had sex she was just like boring i dont know how to say it, and at first i was thinking well damn maybe i just dont get her off but wouldnt she not be wet etc? do you think some people are scared to be loud and stuff or was it probably just i suck at sex?

#2 (**permalink**) 06-03-06, 10:30 AM

my cousin had the same problem, actually. he was screwing this chick and his words were "well.. she just kinda layed there and i was like 'yeah this sucks'"

i think you were right about her just being scared to be loud and whatnot.. obviously she's turned on because she's wet.

actions scream louder than words

xwfuro · #3 (**permalink**) 06-03-06, 10:32 AM

yeah this is what i was assuming because she would stay like soaking wet for like 30 mins or so a lot of the times so its like err what the hell, and it just killed it.

#4 (**permalink**) 06-03-06, 12:16 PM

maybe you should start doing some craziness and see if she starts to do it with you

if that doesn't work, put tight rubber bands around her nipples and her clit and see if she still keeps quiet

Converse · #5 (**permalink**) 07-03-06, 01:03 AM

Ahh man teach her some new stuff lol. I don't mean to sound shallow/selfish but there's nothing worse than a borring ****! I'd rather not get laid at all if it was dull LOL!

clynn · #6 (**permalink**) 07-03-06, 06:00 AM

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Originally Posted by xwfuro

... BUT everytime we had sex she was just like boring i dont know how to say it, and at first i was thinking well damn maybe i just dont get her off but wouldnt she not be wet etc?

How was she boring?

shh! · #7 (**permalink**) 07-03-06, 06:28 AM

Sorry, but it could very well be your technique.

It should help though, if you were to give her a few pointers in the most discrete, kind, and gentle way you possibly could. Unless she is a porn viewer, it is possible she is not even aware that she ought to be participating in the event. If you embarrass her though, she may not want to have sex with you at all anymore.

Late_vamp · #8 (**permalink**) 07-03-06, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by shh!

Sorry, but it could very well be your technique.

It should help though, if you were to give her a few pointers in the most discrete, kind, and gentle way you possibly could. Unless she is a porn viewer, it is possible she is not even aware that she ought to be participating in the event. If you embarrass her though, she may not want to have sex with you at all anymore.

no no shh! ... i dint think it was possible until i had sex with one of them ... yes some women can very boring in bed .... extremely boring ... like someone mentionned before , id rather not get laid than to have boring , frustating sex that seems like a chore .

my ex's used to have sex as if she was a corpse ... silent and no emotion ... then i started to grunt and say obcene things ... and thats when she started to come out of wtv she had ... but still ... even there she was still boring ... and yes i did make her cum ... actions do speak for words ...and she told me . Finally i figured that she wasnt a virgin anymore for a while and that we were comfortable enought to do almost wtv infront of each other ... then its because she just sucked in bed ... she could barely last 4 mins on top of me ... LMAO , then she was tired ..ahh yes , i remembered , thats one of the top reasons why i dumped her ... im sorry i just cant be with someone who cant satisfy my needs .

Only-virgins · #9 (**permalink**) 07-03-06, 01:40 PM

Weed is the number one cause of boring sex.

chelsee · #10 (**permalink**) 10-03-06, 08:42 AM

boring sex is better than no sex at all.

Gigabitch · #11 (**permalink**) 10-03-06, 08:49 AM

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Originally Posted by chelsee

boring sex is better than no sex at all.

Hell no! Life is too short to endure boring sex!

It's just not all that difficult to make it fun, either.

If the person you're doing it with doesn't inspire you- you're not right together. There are three and a half billion people of the opposite sex out there. One of them has got to be fun in bed.

clynn · #12 (**permalink**) 10-03-06, 08:56 AM

I'm not really into making sex an olympic sport either, though.

I mean, sometimes - I think guys feel like they gotta toss you around and do a billion positions to prove their worth.

But some "connection" and eye to eye action can be the sexiest thing going. And very non boring. For me. But maybe it is for men?

shh! · #13 (**permalink**) 10-03-06, 10:37 AM

Aww geez, I just saw that the original poster is only 18! OF COURSE SHE IS BORING!! She is probably inexperienced! Put away the porn. That is not the way people really have sex when they have it on a regular basis.

#14 (**permalink**) 10-03-06, 10:41 AM

ouch what a way to put somebody down! you don't know he's inexperienced and you don't know he thinks that porn is 100% real. he could be very experienced and so can his girlfriend.

don't make unnecessary comments like that, it's just mean

chelsee · #15 (**permalink**) 10-03-06, 10:44 AM

well what do they do then? practice and watch movies. i remember my first time it sucked.