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07-03-06, 11:07 PM
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| | | as you all already know... im going out with a girl and i said about making the relationship stronger if we were to loose our virginity together. well i did nothing like i said about asking her and stuff and like would u ever want to have sex with me all that i didnt say and you lot were thinking that what all i was thinking about!! i no that i shouldnt just come out with a question like that and its too early in relationship to start having sex when we're our age anyways. well anyway...
one of her best mates has starting ask me weather i want to do anything with her, i said yes but ill wait till she is ready and will only do anything when she is and then the next day she talks to my girlfriend about it and said that she will but not just yet and said that she might next week as there would be no one in(by the way this is what my gf told to her best mate, not me) so anyways by then we would have been going out for just bit longer than three weeks. her best mate keeps asking weather i want to and that and i say yes i will when shes ready and keeps tryin to give me condoms, but dont take them off her, because she might say to my gf that he took them and might make her think that i want to as soon as possible, and i dont i will wait as long as it takes for her to be ready...
by the way my girlfriend already knows that i want to and knows that i will wait for her.
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07-03-06, 11:11 PM
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| | | Yes. You should "do" and "say" alot with your gf, not her friend. You two need to discuss this. 3 weeks isn't that long of a time, and I'm guessing youtwo are younger as well.
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07-03-06, 11:15 PM
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| | | Did you not read when we spoke of Pregnancy. A condom isn't a fix all, stop it.
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07-03-06, 11:19 PM
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| | | yea were both 16 and i no that three weeks isnt long, i have talked to her about it because ive said to her about her friend sayin about it and she's asked me do i want to have ive asked would you? and she's said that she will when she's ready. but she hasnt said to me about next week i only know because she told her mate and she told me. | |
07-03-06, 11:22 PM
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| | | yea i no that it isnt TAVS but im sure she wouldnt want to if she was so scared of getting pregnant. | |
07-03-06, 11:24 PM
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| | | 16 is too young. If she were my daughter, you'd be dead.
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07-03-06, 11:26 PM
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| | | its not too young its the legal age anyways and also i was thinking about what about other stuff than sex?? | |
07-03-06, 11:27 PM
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| | | and yes i no her parents wouldnt be happy but if its what she wanted then its up to her.. | |
07-03-06, 11:28 PM
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| | | 16 isn't legal here (US). I'm not the right person for this conversation, seriously. I have two daughters. My blood pressure just went up 10 points typing this.
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07-03-06, 11:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Lloyd95 16 isn't legal here (US). I'm not the right person for this conversation, seriously. I have two daughters. My blood pressure just went up 10 points typing this. That's why you come here; to see what stupid 16-yr old boys are trying to do to ruin their lives.
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07-03-06, 11:43 PM
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| | | 16 years old is too young. You can't even talk to her about sex without using her friend as a go-between. If you are too young/embarrassed to talk about it, you are certainly too young to be doing it.
If you feel this is totally up to you and her, I suggest you sit her parents down and talk about birth control options. Of course, I know you won't do this because (unlike a mature individual) you are afraid of discussing sex.
EDIT: I just noticed that this is the same kid whose girlfriend doesn't even want to kiss him! So yeah, good luck with that...
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08-03-06, 12:25 AM
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08-03-06, 12:32 AM
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| | | Yup this kid sure is stupid, gives other 16 year olds a bad name.
The legal age for sex in the UK is 16 what is it in the states?
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08-03-06, 12:34 AM
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08-03-06, 12:35 AM
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| | | Lol....
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