no desire

[BFTrick]

right, heres the deal. Im no hornier than the guy next to me. But when i get a girlfriend, my desire for sex always dies. Maybe once a week i feel the need and im 19. Which really shouldnt be happeneing.

When i do try to have sex, or when my gf pushes me, i can get her off just fine, but i just dont seem to make any progress. Ill save the gruesome details, but basically i stay hard and all that, however I just dont make any progress, I never get close to an orgasm.

My gf isnt great looking, but quite honestly, shes not butt-ugly. I eventually drive myself crazy and wait till the gf leaves then masturbate.

Any advice?

[vashti]

This is not about your girlfriend. I'd say offhand you may have some intimacy issues, but not because you want sex only once a week (everyone's sex drive is different) - rather I find it kind of odd that you would wait until she leaves to masturbate.

You might want to consider a therapist. Everyone needs a little help from time to time.

I had the same problem. Yes, it isn't your girlfriend, it has something to do with you. Just a quick question, have you ever had a girlfriend where this has not been the case?

Also, a therapist doesn't mean you're crazy.

[XPixiedustX]

question... does your girlfriend turn you on? meaning when you guys are all over each other, do you get turned on....and if not with this one have you ever been turned on...cuz maybe there isn't too much sexual attraction between the two of you...

[Late_vamp]

meybe you jerk off to much ... whenever you have a GF NEVER watch porn .. heck even if you dont have one just dont .

think about all those naughty things youv always wanted to do ... now go do them ...

[BFTrick]

I get turned on by her, while making out and whatnot. And with everyother gf i get plenty turned on by general foreplay.

But with every GF, I just get bored, even if im doing something that i think is amazingly hot, ill get bored 1/2 way through.

[*Tweedy*]

Somethings going wrong...how can anyone get bored!!! sex is great!!

If you feel like that...your not meeting the right people! or and i don't mean to be rude by this...you have issues!

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Originally Posted by BFTrick

And with everyother gf i get plenty turned on by general foreplay.

But with every GF, I just get bored

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Originally Posted by *Tweedy*

your not meeting the right people!

I don't understand how it's possible for somebody to know how to write, yet at the same time they don't know how to read =\

[*Tweedy*]

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Originally Posted by LTsK8eR2gO

I don't understand how it's possible for somebody to know how to write, yet at the same time they don't know how to read =\

Cheers for that!!! but thats just my personal opinion!!! i've been with guys that dont really float my boat and yes i got bored!!

But if you find the right "ONE" things dont get boring!! but like i said, just my own personal opinion!!! from my "OWN" experience!

not to be funny but your 15...i'm 25 i'd say i have a wee bit more experience than u!

You might be 10 years older but you're not a guy Also, it's evidently something in his head.

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Originally Posted by vashti

I'd say offhand you may have some intimacy issues

Even that agrees -_-

[*Tweedy*]

I never disagreed that the guy may have some issues!! i was just suggesting that there may be other possibilitys too.

No need to get bitchy........lovey!!

I'm not being bitchy, lovey.

[*Tweedy*]

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Originally Posted by LTsK8eR2gO

I'm not being bitchy, lovey.

hahaha......ok lets drop that one!!

[BFTrick]

You know actually, maybe thats it, I have only had a handful (3) of GFs that i have gone, erm, sexual with. Well twedy i think i might go with your advice, this GF got fed up with my lack of desire, so im free to go on the hunt again.

[dono]

There must be something wrong with you. Do you have a penis?? And there's a vagina in front of you?? And you're BORED?? *scratches head*