Having trouble keeping an erection with condom on.

[Uniden]

Well, basically, I have this girl I've been seeing for a while, and we have had sex twice. However, both times have been unsatisfying for her(I'm assuming). Basically, I'll finger her, kiss her, and all that stuff besides sex, and I'm hard. But, for some reason, everytime I'm about to put the condom on, I lose my erection. It's really bothersome. However, we're in the back of a pretty small car(1990 Taurus), and it's kind of hard to manuever. I don't that's the problem, though. One time, I had this problem with my last girl friend, but that was only once out of many. I masturbated right before, too.

We're both 18, and live at home. It's rather hard for us to get the right time to have sex. I would love to go to a therapist, but I cannot at the moment. Only one I could have is a school counseler, and that'd be weird to talk about sex with.


Any help please?

[Neveryoumind]

I think you are probably just nervous with the girl.
I once had the same problem. Always hard for anything but once it's for sex it would go down, not completely but not hard enough to put.

After we did it a few times and felt comfortable it was fine

[kanzaki]

ask her to put it for u! i turns guy on (usually)

[Jade Falcon]

You'll get over it quickly. Let her put it on for you....you might like it.

[johncalc]

you might want to masturbate first i mean a little wank gets one aroused, i think age has a lot to do with it too

[gingerbabe86]

We've had this problem before too, but not anymore. Let her put the condom on, it helps. Oh yea and do lots of foreplay a head of time. Eventually, u'll find out that u don't even need foreplay and it will get hard more easily so u can get right at it.

[KillaJakez]

I have the same exact problem....Stil dunno how to solve it. BTW is your car a station wagon? Cuz our older car is a 90 taurus wagon. I fold down the back seat and u have a nice area back there. You can even lie down.