How To Make Her Orgasm - Part I

[MVPlaya]

Perhaps the biggest mystery on this planet for man is the female orgasm. How does she get there? How do I help her get there? What is the magic technique for doing it? Why do her friends laugh at me when I walk by? Well, there are countless "techniques" on getting women to come, but all of these techniques differ per woman and they generally require some sexual maturity. This does not mean that if you can't use these techniques its because you're a virgin, this means because you still haven't properly learned to use her body. However, probably the simplest and most succesful technique for getting her to orgasm is the following one.

Before I get into specifics, its important to understand 2 things:
1) Females are not as visually stimulated as us, tactile and audial stimuly allow their imaginations to help them get where they need to be.
2) A woman needs to know how to use her body in order to be able to climax when with someone who operates on calories not batteries.

So, here we go. The key to sex is her G-Spot / C|itoris. You can find your girl's spot by having her lay on her back. As she is lying there, take your forefinger and place ir inside her with the palm of your hand facing up, move deep inside and stroke the ceiling of her vagina as you move your hand back out. By doing this, you will feel a slight "bump" somewhere, this is her G-spot, the place where all her neural tissue connects and this is the most sensual spot for women. Knowing how to find this is half the roadmap to satisfaction. Now that you know where she is stimulated. This is how to make her climax.

Before you have sex with her, have a little patience (this will pay off), rather than going your usual route which is either throwing her on the bed and pounding away or giving her the worst cunnilingus she has ever had, take your time this time. Take off her clothes and kiss her sensually on her lips, then her neck and go down her body. But don't go down on her. Now, place your hand down South and stimulate her downstairs by giving a gentle rubbing motion, almost as if you're rubbing her cli*toris and go inside to touch her G-Spot. Don't hurt her, don't squeeze it, this will hurt her and immediately turn her off and make her wonder "When should I start faking." Instead, stroke her somewhat gently. This way, you are having her body physically excited. pay attention to her breath rate, she will signal what she likes and dislikes so experiment in stroke-rates until you see something she likes. Also see what she likes better, the G-Spot or the C|itoris, its important to see preferences. While you are doing this, it is her job to squeeze her body in a way to help her climax. But this is only the physical aspect. So, you need to give her some stimuli, while you are doing this, say sensual stuff to her and kiss her breasts. Don't suck on them (you'll have plenty of time to satiate your own sexual desires later) but just lick them, especially lick around the nipple. By doing this, you are making it wet and more sensitive to temperature changes. Breathe out hot air onto her nipples and continue to lick it (don't suck / nibble) while helping her downstairs with your hand. By breathing on to her she will feel much warmer and MUCH more aroused. Continue doing these two things and whisper sensual stuff so that she is mentally receptive to an orgasm. If she is not MENTALLY and PHYSICALLY stimulated, she won't come. Women are not like men, just hitting it (getting pounded in their case) is not enough. So breathe onto her, this will get her very aroused and much more receptive to the big O. After a few minutes she will climax (when she climaxes she won't be screaming like a pornstar, rather, she will be gasping).

After you have done this, she will be wet and now you can have sex with her in your favorite positions. She is now completely ready for sex and its her turn to please you... and believe me... she will.

[jane]

not bad... I would say that you can't catagorize women, in that not all women are alike, but you've covered your bases.
however, women are visual. It depends on the woman. You sound like you're a player. I would however venture to guess that even you have been hurt before. Women are not alike. Make no mistake about it, but the concept of your orgasum titorialis impressive.

[MVPlaya]

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Originally posted by jane
not bad... I would say that you can't catagorize women, in that not all women are alike, but you've covered your bases.
however, women are visual. It depends on the woman. You sound like you're a player. I would however venture to guess that even you have been hurt before. Women are not alike. Make no mistake about it, but the concept of your orgasum titorialis impressive.

Of course I've been hurt... and I'm glad too, otherwise I would still have been this dopey moron. And about being a player, lets just say I have enough experience to write posts like these. But you're right, not all women are alike and some don't even enjoy being fingered. About women being visual, that's where whispering sensual things comes in, you need to have her stimulated on many levels. I'll have another post of this nature soon on different forms of sex.

BTW., as a woman, how about you give us some insight into a woman's look on sex by critiquing these posts and giving us some of your hints?

[jane]

I usually do...

I have to say that some of these guys need a little more guidance that even I can give.

Your right about the different spots but its not really a preference. Women don't get to choose whether is the G-spot or the clit. They have to figure out which is best. I will say that it's possiable that both are just as good. Coming from experience, I like both. I think as a woman gets older, it becomes clearer that both are just as fun. It's almost like the woman needs to masterbate and really start to understand how her body reponds to both.

There is no reason why you can't help that exploration!

I have never had to worry about making a woman orgasm.

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[sfalexi]

Jane wrote:

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Coming from experience, I like both.

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Coming from experience

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Coming

Sorry. This pun just stood WAY out there for me. I know. I have an evil one track mind. Well, I'm a guy.

Alexi

[jane]

ROFL!!!
Now that was funny!
by the way... isn't "comig" spelled "cuming.."

I love the way your mind thinks. Sex is fantastic!

[MVPlaya]

But seriously though, women need to "come from experience." The reason is simple, if they can't bring themselves to orgasm, how can we? Women need to understand how to move their bodies and squeeze themselves to ensure that stimulation gets enough friction and pressure. But remember, different women require different stroke rates.

What's that saying?

Different strokes for different hoes.

[sfalexi]

Since we're doing mix and match, that other famous one, "Put bro's before folks"

Alexi

[jane]

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Originally posted by MVPlaya
What's that saying?

Different strokes for different hoes.

Nice ... but poetry is not your forte...

[MVPlaya]

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Originally posted by jane
Nice ... but poetry is not your forte...

You've never met my poetic side... I was trained, amongst other things, as a musician. This line, however, is a joke not a poem.

[jane]

so serious....

man, I 'm just playin. As a musician? cool.. where did you study?


just curous...
where 's part II?

[MVPlaya]

UC Berkeley... mainly because my major is business and women are so scarce in business classes.

[jane]

lol... good point!

[squirrley]

oh man-you've figured out most of it. Women are not all the same, but have the same parts. It also depends on the way they feel about that person. From experience, coming from clitoris stimulation and then penetration, look out!! You'll find multiples in that direction!!!! Can't wait to hear about you other theories!