Help - Love Forum

Katie2007 · #1 (**permalink**) 07-01-07, 06:03 AM

I cant get an orgasum
My boyfriend is good at gettin my excited, we have een together two years, why cant he give me an orgasum, is there anything i can take to increase my chances

Gigabitch · #2 (**permalink**) 07-01-07, 06:07 AM

It's not actually his responsibility. He's supposed to help, not make it happen.

Practice at home by yourself. You know what I mean.

Zach · #3 (**permalink**) 07-01-07, 06:10 AM

Its all in here (points to your head).

The Great OV!!! · #4 (**permalink**) 07-01-07, 06:26 AM

Your boyfriend is a pansy.

vashti · #5 (**permalink**) 07-01-07, 07:05 AM

Does he have a problem with shooting too fast?

Have you tried oral?

A lot of times, the problem lies in your head. Don't think about whether or not he is enjoying the moment, whether or not you are taking too long, whether or not he thinks you are hot, etc. In fact, for a while, forget he is even there, and pretend he is a life-sized vibrator.

Also, try not to empty your bladder immediately before sex. (women only) The extra pressure makes for more sensitivity, but you don't want the urge to go to the bathroom to be more powerful than the urge to orgasm. ::blush::

NeoSeminole · #6 (**permalink**) 07-01-07, 12:02 PM

get knocked up. I hear more women achieve orgasm when they are pregnant.

Ellynn · #7 (**permalink**) 07-01-07, 01:32 PM

First off, can you achieve one on your own? If not, then maybe its time to practice. If so, then maybe you need to show him what to do.

Second, your probably not relaxed. If you aren't 100% comfy, chances are it's not gonna happen. (I've been there and its very fustrating.)

If anything, you definately need to show him what to do. Guys can't read our minds (unforunately) and sometimes you need to help him out.