Blowjobs...

[fudge]

OK....I have bin with my boyfriend for about 18 months now and long story short , he loves it wen i give him oral, as im sure most blokes do but the problem ive got is that he can never jus let me do it in my own time, he always has 2 ask, which puts me off, i dont no y. im not 2 keen on doin it in the first place but i love him and want 2 please him! so basically im askin for advice on how 2 stop him asking/begging/demanding for blowjobs and how 2 get him 2 be patient?? any ideas??

[The Great OV!!!]

You should never do what you do not like to do.

[anachronistic]

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Originally Posted by The Great OV!!!

You should never do what you do not like to do.

That's common sense.

Ask the boy to allow you to guess what he wants you to do to him. Ask him to not ask.

[Tiay]

yup, simple. just ask him not to ask. seriously, that's ten times better than playing any silly games with him. It's about communicating.

I think it's okay for people to ask when it's really necessary, ie, "wait, I need some more oral before I can have sex", this is useful for new couples to learn each others wants/needs/patterns/etc. But in general sexual favours should be earned, not simply asked for.

[anachronistic]

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Originally Posted by Tiay

yup, simple. just ask him not to ask. seriously, that's ten times better than playing any silly games with him. It's about communicating.

I think it's okay for people to ask when it's really necessary. Sexual favours should be earned, not simply asked for.

And reciprocations should always occur.

[hal24]

how often is he getting oral? maybe he's asking because he does'nt think you would do it otherwise.