Is there something wrong with me?

[graymonkey44]

All right, the first time I had sex was last Saturday. We were going for like a half hour and then she was afraid my dad was going to come home so we stopped. I wasn't even close to finishing.

Then just yesterday I went over to her house and we started getting dirty again, and we were seriously going for over an hour and I still didn't have any urge at all to go. We went through 2 condoms because the lubricant was wearing off on both. Then we started having sex without a condom and I was like forget this, it's not worth it. I kind of felt something without the condom though. But after that she started giving me a blowjob for like 10 minutes and I still didn't feel anything. Then her neck started getting tired so she was giving me a handjob and I STILL couldn't go. Sooo all together It was like an hour and half and I couldn't feel anything.

I really have no idea why I don't have the urge at all to go. I mean I'm 17 years old and since I was a virgin before this I thought I'd go in like 5 minutes.

Also, after the condoms broke I started fingering her and she's like stick 3 fingers in. So I did. And then she's like stick FOUR and I'm like . I could fir four fingers in her. And she only had sex with one other person before. Soooo I don't know if that's loose because I have nothing else to compare it too or what. But it's weird.

[NeoSeminole]

does it feel good when you masturbate (no homo)? If so, then it's a psychological problem. If not, then you probably have few nerve endings in your dick which means you will always have this problem. Regarding your gf being loose, I would say so unless you have very small fingers. Most guys I've talked to about fingering say initially they can only fit 2 fingers in - 3 max.

[Gribble]

If you're worried that she isn't tight enough, try fingering her with just one finger. Let it sit in there for a little while and her vagina will naturally try to contract around it, thus making it tighter for other parts of your anatomy.