turn a girl on ..subtly?

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[Kiechi]

Buttplugs?

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Originally Posted by Eurasian

Buttplugs?

and that is...?

[the_passenger]

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without her getting naked and him putting his hands down her pants.

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It turns a girl on if she's naked and he puts his hands down a pair of empty pants?....

LostNotFound, your question is good and I'm curious too. It's usually all natural, instinct and inspiration I guess, but it doesn't hurt to find out what others do to sweep their partners off their feet. I'll cook up an answer myself, till then I'll be watching this thread with anticipation .

[The Great OV!!!]

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Originally Posted by LostNotFound

what is the best way for a guy to turn a girl on without her getting naked and him putting his hands down her pants.

rub her through her pants?

rub her through her pants?

see i would see that as near enough full on.. can't guys do it by talking? or ligth touching and feeling? or by being more romantic? hmm.

[The Great OV!!!]

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Originally Posted by LostNotFound

rub her through her pants?

see i would see that as near enough full on.. can't guys do it by talking? or ligth touching and feeling? or by being more romantic? hmm.

Yes, if she is really into you then you can passionatly turn her on...but you have to play a smooth operator.

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Originally Posted by The Great OV!!!

you have to play a smooth operator.

how?
(im clueless)

[Frasbee]

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Originally Posted by LostNotFound

how?
(im clueless)

What does it matter?

You're a girl.

Our secrets should be kept to ourselves.

In any case, you should know what turns you on, subtle or "full on".

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Originally Posted by Frasbee

What does it matter?

You're a girl.

Our secrets should be kept to ourselves.

In any case, you should know what turns you on, subtle or "full on".

cause we're both virgins we don't really know anything lol. hmm so i want to know things that could possibly 'turn me on' cause i haven't really experienced it. my SO tries to get me excited and ends up making me ticklish (which i don't mind) but he seems to be disappointed that he can't arouse my senses lol

go on frasbee, share your secrets...

[Jazzersize]

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Originally Posted by LostNotFound

what is the best way for a guy to turn a girl on without her getting naked and him putting his hands down her pants. i mean for like him to turn her on without being so full-on. for example my SO does stuff that makes me tingle. but if he keeps doing the same thing it obviously gets less 'tingly'. hmm any ideas?

tell her dead girls don't say no

[Gigabitch]

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Originally Posted by Jazzersize

tell her dead girls don't say no

SMACK!

Wow. That felt good. haven't e-smacked someone since Skaterboy got banned.

Anyway, Original Poster, you turn her on with your mouth. By talking. If you're good at this, you won't have to take her pants off- she'll do it for you, and get in your bed, too, eventually.

For me, and I think I'm not alone in this, if I can trust someone, I can free myself up to get turned on. I simply cannot get excited about someone who I suspect might hurt me. So tell her you love her. Tell her she's the greatest thing since sliced bread, and that you can think of nothing in the world more delightful than the prospect of sharing yourselves with one another for the first time.

It might be helpful to show just a little vulnerability, too.

okay i think i've confused everyone. i'm the girl. i want to know how to get my other half who is male to turn me on without being so blunt as 'to rub my down my pants' . hmm. lol thanks for the adivce though.

[Gigabitch]

Oh, my God, yes, I was confused. Ha!

Okay, so you want to get turned on, huh? And the rub down the pants thing is a no-go.

Women are far more auditorily-oriented than men, who tend to be more visual. Could he read some semi-erotic stories to you, perhaps?