could for forgive - Love Forum

gaddes · #1 (**permalink**) 19-03-07, 06:31 AM

someone who cheated on you even if they confess to it.

i don't think i could do it ?

Gigabitch · #2 (**permalink**) 19-03-07, 06:32 AM

Hell, no. The world is full of people. I can find one that isn't a cheater. I want someone who respects both me and himself.

gaddes · #3 (**permalink**) 19-03-07, 06:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gigabitch

Hell, no. The world is full of people. I can find one that isn't a cheater. I want someone who respects both me and himself.

i have to agree

General Mac® · #4 (**permalink**) 19-03-07, 09:59 AM

HELL NO. If she lacks INTEGRITY....DROP HER/HIM.....i see way too many unfortunate love struck imbasils forgiving pricks for cheating..those same pricks cheat again eventually. Theres truth to "once a cheater always a cheater". If they were driven to cheat before, they will be driven again. not everyone can be faithful, some of us lack enough power to fight temptation

vashti · #5 (**permalink**) 19-03-07, 11:08 AM

Maybe. It depends on how much is at stake. No kids? I probably wouldn't keep him around, but a one-time indiscretion over the length of a long marriage? If they were genuinely sorry, I wouldn't tear apart my kid's family over that.

anachronistic · #6 (**permalink**) 19-03-07, 02:12 PM

No, I couldn't just let it slide. I would have to cheat on her to forgive her (and I'm not like that)... and then I'd still have a tough time letting her out of the house without me...

Sami09 · #7 (**permalink**) 19-03-07, 11:11 PM

its possible too forgive i am trying myself. I am not saying its an easy thing its one of the hardest thing to do. It ben to months since it happened and it still feel the pain.
How long were you with the person gaddes or is this just question.