Teeth & oral sex - Love Forum

Lovebubble · #1 (**permalink**) 12-04-07, 05:40 PM

Hey to all, i am having teeth problems when giving my boyfriend oral sex. I have not had this problem before, and not even at the beginning of the relationship...but it is now an ongoing problem that is driving me crazy. He is well endowed, which doesn't make it any easier...and he still always wants me to do it. But he constantly puts special cream on daily. Has anyone had this problem? Anyone got any advice?

Sal329 · #2 (**permalink**) 12-04-07, 08:16 PM

Whats the problem? Your teeth scrapping him? What cream does he put on? Is the cream your problem?

Gigabitch · #3 (**permalink**) 12-04-07, 10:41 PM

I have this concern as well, without the "special cream" part. (I don't know what that's all about.) Sometimes I'm sure I'm going to hurt him, but he tells me not to worry about it at all.

I've come to the conclusion that if he's okay with it, I'm okay with it. I have found that it's significantly easier if he's laying down rather than standing up- I can work with the angle better to minimize the teeth-scraping effect.

vashti · #4 (**permalink**) 13-04-07, 07:12 AM

This may sound pretty basic, but maybe you should focus more on the tip with your mouth while using your hand and tongue on the shaft.

Charlie Boy · #5 (**permalink**) 13-04-07, 07:25 AM

My girl gets me with her teeth pretty much every time. It's not my favorite feeling in the world but it's a damn sight better than not getting head at all. As long as you're not getting all cheese grater on him I wouldn't worry about it.

Also you could try licking him like a paddle pop when your mouth needs a rest. Or stick out your tongue and kind of whack his dick down on it. You'll send him to the moon. **** I wish someone would give my girlfriend this advice.

anachronistic · #6 (**permalink**) 13-04-07, 08:03 AM

it really sounds like you're trying to stuff an entire cock in your mouth.

try just licking on it or sucking on a part that you actually can suck without scraping teeth.

bluesummer · #7 (**permalink**) 13-04-07, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Charlie Boy

Also you could try licking him like a paddle pop when your mouth needs a rest. Or stick out your tongue and kind of whack his dick down on it. You'll send him to the moon. **** I wish someone would give my girlfriend this advice.

Here's a concept: TELL HER YOURSELF.

Charlie Boy · #8 (**permalink**) 13-04-07, 09:22 AM

I knew someone was going to say that. I don't know, I'll talk about my preferences pretty openly in other areas but standing there with my hands on my hips giving blowjob instructions like "oh yeah, lick it like a lolly pop" "slap it on your tongue uhhnhhhn that's right" "now take it all the way in to the hilt, that's right" probably wouldn't gel. Sadly, life is not a porno film.

Gribble · #9 (**permalink**) 13-04-07, 09:40 AM

Why not? I tell them what I want and I encourage them to tell me what they want.

Lovebubble · #10 (**permalink**) 13-04-07, 12:22 PM

Firstly, yes it is my teeth that are scraping him. I thought it originally must have been my wisdom teeth so I got them out and $570 later....I still had the problem. Bugger. I think it's just tough luck. While I try to do more licking and just head sucking - he loves it deep whether or not there's pain involved, so guess thats just the way it is. However, thanks for the tongue smacking advice....I will have to try that. You should be able to tell your girl if you want her to try something. Thats the whole fun - trying new things.

jMarkt · #11 (**permalink**) 13-04-07, 04:21 PM

well I'm not much of a deep throat kinda guy lol

I prefer the lick and lips around the tip, sides, and balls.

Tiay · #12 (**permalink**) 13-04-07, 10:34 PM

Do you have a jaw thing? I forget what it's called.. Does your jaw sometimes 'click' when you eat and stuff like that? There's nothing you can really do about it (there is surgery, but that's a baad idea). Does the idea of having something to bite down on during the blow job sound appealing? Maybe you can find something for that.
I agree, to take break just use your tongue and hands for a while. Also, if he doesn't complain about it, and he'd prefer to get it deep with a little scraping than not get it deep at all, then don't worry (:

clynn · #13 (**permalink**) 14-04-07, 03:28 AM

TMJ (the jaw thing)

anachronistic · #14 (**permalink**) 14-04-07, 05:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Charlie Boy

I knew someone was going to say that. I don't know, I'll talk about my preferences pretty openly in other areas but standing there with my hands on my hips giving blowjob instructions like "oh yeah, lick it like a lolly pop" "slap it on your tongue uhhnhhhn that's right" "now take it all the way in to the hilt, that's right" probably wouldn't gel. Sadly, life is not a porno film.

i don't like instructing either. i'm not afraid to tell her what i like and don't like, but i'm not going to instruct. haha

bluesummer · #15 (**permalink**) 15-04-07, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by lilwing

i don't like instructing either. i'm not afraid to tell her what i like and don't like, but i'm not going to instruct. haha

Well then, expect not to get what you want.

I guess it comes with age and experience, but I'm not afraid to tell a man what I want in bed. And the best guys I've been with were the ones who weren't afraid to ask for what they wanted.