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bloodtippedrose · #46 (**permalink**) 14-03-08, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Mishanya

Doesn't having sex with neutral make it, ...passionless? Emotionless? Unattractive? Dull? Boring? Doesn't it make you wonder why you are doing this at that point in time? And if yes, then what drove you to it? Boredom? The conveniece? Unattracive sex good because it's convenient?

Sorry, I don't mean to come off as judgemental. Just trying to understand something which is not so clear to me.

...And what about his feelings? What if he was to develop these for you? How could you justify not wanting to see him after what has happened? How could you justify allowing it to happen when you had no feelings for him and knew this wouldn't lead to anything?

Again, relating to my personal experience. I couldn't have sex with a girl I knew I wouldn't be willing to move to higher level with if she wanted, because this wouldn't be fair to her. This principle would make me resist.

actually all of the above.. I wasnt into it so my mind would wonder.. it felt good though, raw emotion always does.. just not as good.. cumming is half mental and when youre not into it, its just practice for an acting class. All sex is good in my book though. I was lonely, and bored, and him being next door is convienient. When it comes to romance his feelings seem to be completely mutual. I think Im cute but maybe he isnt attracted to me. I dont know, he doesnt act like it. I do know though that he took a ten day trip to germany and the day he got on that plane his BEST FRIEND was on my doorstep offering gifts and trying to take me on dates. some friend

Mishanya · #47 (**permalink**) 14-03-08, 11:03 AM

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Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose

I was lonely, and bored, and him being next door is convienient.

This explains it, I guess

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Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose

I think Im cute

You are

DoesntMatter · #48 (**permalink**) 14-03-08, 12:14 PM

If I was btrs neighbor I would completely bone her

Mishanya · #49 (**permalink**) 14-03-08, 12:35 PM

I wouldn't, even though she's cute

I'd only do it if there are mutual feelings, it's a lot more fun that way. Then it would be a night to remember

Illusional · #50 (**permalink**) 14-03-08, 01:51 PM

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I wouldn't, even though she's cute

I'd only do it if there are mutual feelings, it's a lot more fun that way. Then it would be a night to remember

well then step aside because you're only getting in my way. i'd come ah running and knock the damn door down.

raverboy

Mishanya · #51 (**permalink**) 14-03-08, 01:54 PM

You must be confusing me for something else Illusional, I don't get into anyone's way. I don't come to them, they come to me

Illusional · #52 (**permalink**) 14-03-08, 02:22 PM

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You must be confusing me for something else Illusional, I don't get into anyone's way. I don't come to them, they come to me

yeah sorry, i have mistaken you. damn i didn't realize that my line of girls was sooooooooo long that it actually drifted around your block too. my bad.

raverboy

Mishanya · #53 (**permalink**) 14-03-08, 02:42 PM

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yeah sorry, i have mistaken you. damn i didn't realize that my line of girls was sooooooooo long that it actually drifted around your block too. my bad.

raverboy

And while you enjoy that long long long line of random quantaty, you can bet your ass I will be there somewhere spending long long looooong deep quality with an incredible, amazing, girl of your wildest dreams one

Illusional · #54 (**permalink**) 14-03-08, 03:21 PM

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And while you enjoy that long long long line of random quantaty, you can bet your ass I will be there somewhere spending long long looooong deep quality with an incredible, amazing, girl of your wildest dreams one

nah not really.. all these girls previously were at their photoshoots at the playboy mansion. i'm all g here on my block.

raverboy

Mishanya · #55 (**permalink**) 14-03-08, 04:04 PM

Photoshoots and Playboy Mansions don't define quality my friend, I'd rather go for something real than something artificial

But try your luck with these if that so pleases you

vashti · #56 (**permalink**) 14-03-08, 08:29 PM

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Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose

maybe he isnt attracted to me. I dont know, he doesnt act like it. I do know though that he took a ten day trip to germany and the day he got on that plane his BEST FRIEND was on my doorstep offering gifts and trying to take me on dates. some friend

It wouldn't matter to him if his friend dates you if he doesn't think of you as anything more than a convenient piece of ass though, right?

bloodtippedrose · #57 (**permalink**) 15-03-08, 07:59 AM

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It wouldn't matter to him if his friend dates you if he doesn't think of you as anything more than a convenient piece of ass though, right?

Im not so sure. Guys seem to be quite territorial. Im not sure if he wants to be with me or not but he has told me he doesnt want me sleeping with other guys. Im pretty sure the hair on his neck would stand if he knew his friend was trying to get with me while he was on his trip.

Illusional · #58 (**permalink**) 15-03-08, 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Mishanya

Photoshoots and Playboy Mansions don't define quality my friend, I'd rather go for something real than something artificial

But try your luck with these if that so pleases you

it's ok because i'm fine with a line full of beautiful women.

raverboy

bloodtippedrose · #59 (**permalink**) 15-03-08, 03:46 PM

no wonder he acted funny.. I guess he liked me but didnt feel the right to claim me. He told me before he left that his friend will buddy up to me and try to turn me against him, I didnt understand that until tonight.

tonight sucked. The friend that keeps asking me out started getting peeved when I kept denying him and asked if I knew why my neighbor boy went on the trip to germany. I got on edge knowing that he was going to try to make me mad at my neighbor. he told me that he went to visit his girlfriend in germany. I didnt expect that.. needless to say I was getting out of my car the same time and ended up locking my keys in and having to call AAA ten at night -_- His friend said that he felt it wouldnt hurt to have a girlfriend in two different countries because theyd never find out. And here I thought he was a skinny red-head with no game. heartbroken? no. definately annoyed and saddened. he cheated on his girl and lied to me. Im going to make him feel so guilty when he gets back. Im good at that. no cry-fests yelling bullshit, he wasnt my boyfriend, but Ill give back his movies and stop speaking with him. As for his friend, he's of no use to me. Seems like a shitty friend for ratting him out to a girl he just met so he can get pussy. Which will not happen -_- Sigh.
So I want companionship but its just not in the cards for me. Im just going to take my sexual needs out on my 32yr old booty call and keep to myself, work and school. Screw all these backstabbing boys. Wonder if dating a girl would be any different

Mishanya · #60 (**permalink**) 15-03-08, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose

So I want companionship but its just not in the cards for me. Im just going to take my sexual needs out on my 32yr old booty call and keep to myself, work and school. Screw all these backstabbing boys. Wonder if dating a girl would be any different

It doesn't have to be this way Rose. You can play the field. Look at you, you're a very cute lady. You can land a good quality guy, very easily I might add. There're tonnes of them looking for a girl just like you. Who look just like you. Who talk just like you. Who want the same things you want. Who have your personality. Don't make excuses and sexually / emotionally starve yourself. Get out there and play. There's a world of opportunity waiting for you. Go out there and claim it