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Old 01-03-08, 07:43 AM
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I've been getting moderately physical with a girl for a couple weeks now. She recently came out of a relationship of 13 months and isn't ready to make a serious commitment... just if you're wondering.
A few times when I've been talking to her, she somehow brought up something along the lines of "I really like it when people play with my hair." Also, at a dance, one of her friends did some little thing to her hair and she blamed it on me, but she knew it wasn't me and later came up to me and said "you can play with my hair any time you want."

So a bunch of times now when we're cuddling in the hall or something, I've been about *this* close to playing with her hair, but realized that I have no idea what the Hell I'm doing.
And she has really nice hair.

Suggestions, anybody?
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oh, I love when my bf does that. It does mean though that we leave park benches, the cinema, the car, etc, with my hair messed up.

wait-- are you asking whether you should play with her hair, or *how* you should play with her hair?
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ask her how she likes it and let her teach you how it should be done.
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are you asking whether you should play with her hair, or *how* you should play with her hair?
I'm pretty much asking *how* I should. I know that I should.
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i just typed in "head massage" on youtube and all kinds of stuff came up.
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wow, and here i was thinking, shit, i'd just lick her pubs if she wanted me to.

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I'm pretty much asking *how* I should. I know that I should.
ok, here goes. Playing with someone's hair is something you will probably enjoy, too. It's not like it's a chore. Most guys seem to love doing it.

first of all, don't ruffle vigorously. she's not a dog. Don't mess up her hair if she's done it up elaborately, and understand that sometimes she may have a bad hair day and not want you to go there.

If she dyes her hair a lot and/or complains of brittle/dry hair, then don't do anything like twist or bend her hair too much.

Other than that, there's not a whole lot you can do wrong. Have you ever observed girls playing with their own hair? I guess it's somewhat like that. Run your fingers through it. Curl a strand around your finger. I actually love doing this with my own hair because it's kinda wavy towards the ends, and I flatten one strand out and watch how it re-waves itself. Re-arrange her fringe. Pretty much just have fun with it.
Playing with hair can be intense and flirty, or it can be akin to absent mindedly toying with a rubiks cube or other such gadget. There's fitting situations for all kinds of hair playing
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