Love Forum - Online Relationship Discussion
Quote of the month: "Remember brick walls let us show our dedication. They are there to separate us from the people who don't really want to achieve their childhood dreams " ~ Randy Pausch

 

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Rate Thread Display Modes
  #1 (permalink)  
Old 07-03-08, 04:11 PM
Lovebubble Lovebubble is offline
Registered User
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 17
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Lovebubble is on a distinguished road
Stripping Ideas?
So I want to do a strip for my partner...the fight is to make up a routine and then be able to do it without laughing. Does anyone have any ideas to what music to play? I have a dirty nurse outfit and thought I could start with a "Physical sexual health check" but if anyone has any ideas that have worked for them...or guys, something crazy you have seen in a stripclub - then please let me know!
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Loveforum Breaktime
love

Loveforum also recommend

  • Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
  #2 (permalink)  
Old 07-03-08, 04:47 PM
TheSphinx TheSphinx is offline
Registered User
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 301
Thanks: 60
Thanked 80 Times in 63 Posts
TheSphinx will become famous soon enoughTheSphinx will become famous soon enough
Implementing a "no touching" policy until you've finished your striptease might up the sexual tension.

Regardless of the routine, I've always enjoyed a dance when my partner at the time implemented a lot of teasing.

~Sphinx
__________________
You don't need eyes to see, you need vision. ~Faithless, Reverence.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #3 (permalink)  
Old 07-03-08, 04:57 PM
anachronistic's Avatar
anachronistic anachronistic is offline
Cougar Bait
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 4,566
My Mood:
Thanks: 823
Thanked 318 Times in 281 Posts
anachronistic has a spectacular aura aboutanachronistic has a spectacular aura aboutanachronistic has a spectacular aura aboutanachronistic has a spectacular aura aboutanachronistic has a spectacular aura about
songs? how about pomp and circumstance?
__________________
Ha ha ha ha, he he he he, ho ho ho ho, ha ha haaa.

... and I thought my jokes were bad.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #4 (permalink)  
Old 08-03-08, 12:25 AM
GrkScorp's Avatar
GrkScorp GrkScorp is offline
Unregistered User
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,908
Thanks: 700
Thanked 479 Times in 383 Posts
GrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura about
Send a message via AIM to GrkScorp Send a message via MSN to GrkScorp Send a message via Skype™ to GrkScorp
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lovebubble View Post
Does anyone have any ideas to what music to play? I have a dirty nurse outfit and thought I could start with a "Physical sexual health check" but if anyone has any ideas that have worked for them...or guys, something crazy you have seen in a stripclub - then please let me know!
You guys have to be kidding me..

Well, from what I can remember, here are some songs from my own strip tease adventure:

(Note: I'm not a big "rap" fan, but in the moment, that music was quite fitting)

- Flo Rida - Low (there's a "dirty" version if you can find it)
- Same Girl - R.Kelly feat. Usher
- Tired of You - Foo Fighters
- I Wanna Love You - Akon
- Sex and Candy - Marcy Playground (play towards the end of the strip)
- Get Low - Lil Jon
- Grind on Me - Pretty Ricky
- Is you feeling me - 3LW
- My Love is like Woah - Mya
- Cyclone - Baby Bash feat. T-Pain
- Crank Dat Soulja Boy - Soulja Boy (I couldn't stand this song, but up to you)
- Fiesta - R. Kelly (Try and get the "remix" too)
- Ignition (Remix) - R. Kelly
- Thoia Thoing - R. Kelly
- Yeah - Usher
- Lick - Joi
- Ayo Technology - 50 Cent
- Buttons - The Pussycat Dolls
- Promiscuous - Nelly Furtado
- Buy U A Drank - T-Pain
- Beep - The Pussycat Dolls

Ugh, guys and their nurse fettish..

Remember, don't try and dance perfectly in tune with the song.. just do your own thing.. seriously.. every hip movement should take place at that count of two.. so in your head, just count.. 1.. 2.. hip movement.. 1.. 2.. hip movement.. and transition it..

I know a lot of these songs are outrageous.. believe me.. the first time they went on, I felt like a total sleaze and perv.. But that's sort of the point (not to feel like a sleaze and perv) but to feel comfortable and relaxed.. so at first, it's hard to keep a serious face with songs like Thoia Thoing.. but it's important songs like that which go in the beginning, to help your guy break out of that mentality.. and let go of any artificial reservations he's feeling.. and just relax completely.. and be totally comfortable.. and sit back and enjoy what you're doing..

Best,

GrkScorp
__________________
If you can't stop the Wind, then you can't stop the Storm.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #5 (permalink)  
Old 08-03-08, 02:18 AM
SunRiSer SunRiSer is offline
Registered User
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Posts: 24
Thanks: 16
Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts
SunRiSer is on a distinguished road
i smell sex and candy - nirvana ^^

and.. no nurse outfit, really
some guys hate it
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to SunRiSer For This Useful Post:
GrkScorp (08-03-08)
  #6 (permalink)  
Old 08-03-08, 02:43 AM
GrkScorp's Avatar
GrkScorp GrkScorp is offline
Unregistered User
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,908
Thanks: 700
Thanked 479 Times in 383 Posts
GrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura about
Send a message via AIM to GrkScorp Send a message via MSN to GrkScorp Send a message via Skype™ to GrkScorp
Quote:
Originally Posted by SunRiSer View Post
i smell sex and candy - nirvana ^^

and.. no nurse outfit, really
some guys hate it
Yeah, i'm not all for it either.. but hey, each guy is different..

Personally, great thong (baby-blue, hot-pink, white, yellow, light green, gray), and bikini/bra for top.. maybe a short/tight shirt might do too.. and if it's not on marble/wood floors, a pair of cotton knee-high socks (two colors).. and just make sure the whole thing matches and there's plenty of contrast between the colors and your skin..

But if he's into the nurse thing.. then he's into the nurse thing.. what can you do..
__________________
If you can't stop the Wind, then you can't stop the Storm.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #7 (permalink)  
Old 08-03-08, 03:50 AM
Tedel's Avatar
Tedel Tedel is offline
As tender as a wolf.
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Peru
Gender: Male
Posts: 714
Thanks: 57
Thanked 129 Times in 100 Posts
Tedel is on a distinguished roadTedel is on a distinguished road
Send a message via ICQ to Tedel Send a message via AIM to Tedel Send a message via MSN to Tedel Send a message via Yahoo to Tedel
Three more suggestions for you...

"Soft and easy" - Tyrese (tender)
"Carry on dancing" - Savage Garden (very energetic)
"Check upon it" - Beyoncé (its lyrics will speak for themselves)

Edit:

NO "Unbreak my heart" - Tony Braxton
NO "When you're gone" - Cranberries

or any other song with sad/lonely lyrics.
__________________
There's still a lot to achieve.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to Tedel For This Useful Post:
GrkScorp (08-03-08)
  #8 (permalink)  
Old 08-03-08, 04:28 AM
GrkScorp's Avatar
GrkScorp GrkScorp is offline
Unregistered User
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,908
Thanks: 700
Thanked 479 Times in 383 Posts
GrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura about
Send a message via AIM to GrkScorp Send a message via MSN to GrkScorp Send a message via Skype™ to GrkScorp
Although, for when I get married, there MUST be:

- You can leave your hat on - Joe Cocker

Every Saturday or Sunday.. just because it's fun and classy, not because it's sexy or anything..
__________________
If you can't stop the Wind, then you can't stop the Storm.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #9 (permalink)  
Old 08-03-08, 05:52 AM
misombra's Avatar
misombra misombra is offline
atada a mis pies.
 
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: 45 degrees away.
Posts: 9,933
Thanks: 876
Thanked 875 Times in 665 Posts
misombra is a glorious beacon of lightmisombra is a glorious beacon of lightmisombra is a glorious beacon of lightmisombra is a glorious beacon of lightmisombra is a glorious beacon of lightmisombra is a glorious beacon of lightmisombra is a glorious beacon of lightmisombra is a glorious beacon of light
Quote:
Originally Posted by GrkScorp View Post
Although, for when I get married, there MUST be:

- You can leave your hat on - Joe Cocker

Every Saturday or Sunday.. just because it's fun and classy, not because it's sexy or anything..
wow. that was your shortest post.

are you saying you can't give any detailed information about a strip show?

come on gskorp, i know you can.....
__________________


a wise man isn't always saved by his wisdom. just like a stupid man does not always do stupid things.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #10 (permalink)  
Old 08-03-08, 10:01 AM
Illusional Illusional is offline
different state of mind
 
Join Date: Sep 2001
Gender: Male
Posts: 12,794
My Mood:
Thanks: 14
Thanked 291 Times in 246 Posts
Illusional is a jewel in the roughIllusional is a jewel in the roughIllusional is a jewel in the roughIllusional is a jewel in the roughIllusional is a jewel in the rough
Send a message via ICQ to Illusional Send a message via AIM to Illusional Send a message via MSN to Illusional
why would i want to strip for your partner when he's a guy?? i'd much rather have you sit in my lap and i'll show you a thing or two.

raverboy
__________________
...this is just my perspective on the situation...
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #11 (permalink)  
Old 08-03-08, 10:20 AM
Lovebubble Lovebubble is offline
Registered User
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 17
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Lovebubble is on a distinguished road
Interesting...
It's interesting to hear about the nurse thing...I saw it and had to buy it! I'd walk round the house in it if I could....I do have a corset with suspender, fishnets n matching G - plus some black high heels - but that was my valentines suprise.....I was hoping you could help me more so with some kinky moves...like tie him to a chair or something. Once my mates told me this stripper spread her legs in the air, shoved a candle up her pussy, lit it and then sprayed aerosol so it flamed up - now that sounds cool, but bloody dangerous for me!!! But there must be some other shit that really gets you guys going??!!! Something he wouldn't expect me to do
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #12 (permalink)  
Old 08-03-08, 01:24 PM
kalupe kalupe is offline
proudly pinay
 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: In your head
Posts: 228
Thanks: 4
Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts
kalupe is on a distinguished road
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lovebubble View Post
It's interesting to hear about the nurse thing...I saw it and had to buy it! I'd walk round the house in it if I could....I do have a corset with suspender, fishnets n matching G - plus some black high heels - but that was my valentines suprise.....I was hoping you could help me more so with some kinky moves...like tie him to a chair or something. Once my mates told me this stripper spread her legs in the air, shoved a candle up her pussy, lit it and then sprayed aerosol so it flamed up - now that sounds cool, but bloody dangerous for me!!! But there must be some other shit that really gets you guys going??!!! Something he wouldn't expect me to do
WHOA. haha, okay okay im too young for this thread. i'll just go visit the other topics.
__________________
"Life is a bitch, and then YOU die." -my neighbor
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #13 (permalink)  
Old 08-03-08, 01:40 PM
GrkScorp's Avatar
GrkScorp GrkScorp is offline
Unregistered User
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,908
Thanks: 700
Thanked 479 Times in 383 Posts
GrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura aboutGrkScorp has a spectacular aura about
Send a message via AIM to GrkScorp Send a message via MSN to GrkScorp Send a message via Skype™ to GrkScorp
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lovebubble View Post
Once my mates told me this stripper spread her legs in the air, shoved a candle up her pussy, lit it and then sprayed aerosol so it flamed up
I think I would faint out of pure shock if I saw a woman do that.. (and not in a good way)

Well, I didn't notice that you were asking for advice on your actual routine, I thought you were just asking about the music.. but since it's a little clear now..

- Look up some videos on women stripping..

1. Kate (from Kate's Playground, courtesy of my brother)
2. Raven Riley (Warning! XXX-rated, so look through carefully)
3. Puma Swede (type her name in with "lap-dance", you should get the video)
4. Go to "evilchili" and search up "strip, lap-dance".. they always have tons of videos from professional strippers

All those videos are going to give you a feel for.. is the rhythm.. that's it! Just the rhythm.. and the rhythm is.. inside your head.. count.. 1..2.. hip movement.. 1.. 2.. hip movement.. That's it.. it's really simple..

As you're counting.. be moving your hips and your body in general.. (i'll get more specific) but when you reach to that final count.. start to switch to the other side.. for example.. if you're moving your butt towards the left.. and it reaches the left of the count of 2.. start to move it towards the right.. and as you do that.. make sure it takes 2 seconds.. At first, you'll have to think about it.. but as you practice, you'll start to notice how you'll get better and more natural at it.. and how this rhythm is more natural and automatic..

Now, the big question is.. "what do I do?".. before we get to that.. I think I have to stress the most mind-blowing, sexy part about a strip..

MENTALITY

- At that moment, YOU are, the sexiest thing in the room, and in his mind.. you are the sexiest object representing sexual arousal and pleasure.. And at that moment, you're turning him on to such a high degree of sexual arousal, and he's just letting go and surrendering to the unlimited supply of pleasure you're giving him.. And what's sexy is, that this is what YOU are thinking, this is what you KNOW.. and for as long as you KNOW this.. in your mind, as fact.. Your face and body will show it and reflect it naturally..

BODY

- What you should be doing with your body are two things.. (1) Having fun, "auto-erotic gestures such as self-touching on the breasts, hips, tummy, legs, butt, hair, lips, neck, etc.. wherever it feels right.. just have fun".. (2) Using your body as a tool, for his sexual pleasure.. again, refer back to mentality.. you KNOW that this is what you're giving him at this point.. and imagine this powerful and very potent sexual energy that your body has.. and at first he can't handle it fully.. so you have to slowly build up.. teasing.. and then transition to more full-on contact..

FACE

- Personally, the hottest part is the face.. and everything it communicates.. the non-verbal message it says.. "I know i'm getting you turned on.. I know i'm making you lose control.. I know you can't take it anymore.. looks like someone's happy.. looks like things are looking up for you.. down boy.. not yet".. don't try too hard.. (I recently went to Tampa, and went to both the Dollhouse & Mons Venus.. fake-faces were major turn-offs)

ROUTINE

- It pains me to repost this, because this girl never called me back.. but, if you have the time, read through Tampa & TXB (Long) to get an idea of some techniques

POINTERS

- Breathing slowly down the neck and ear
- Softly purring/humming nasally into his ear
- Massaging the back of his head and neck and tugging on his hair
- Placing his hands on your thighs, hips, waist, and breasts
- Falling back onto him as you turn your head over your shoulder to look at him and continue to dance
- Use your butt to grind on his (cough cough) while he's sitting down
- As you're grinding, use you hand to slowly and softly work up and down his shaft
- Keep grinding and now stroke the shaft harder and with more assertiveness (or playfully, depending what he's into)
- Go back to grinding with no hands, and slowly transition onto hands again, and keep repeating..
- If he's too much of a doof to throw you on the bed after a certain point.. lead him to the bed yourself.. just go on the bed, make yourself comfy, and gesture for him to come join you..

Lastly, enjoy yourself, and have fun.. that's the most important thing..

Best,

GrkScorp
__________________
If you can't stop the Wind, then you can't stop the Storm.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Loveforum Breaktime
love

Loveforum also recommend

  • Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
Reply


Thread Tools
Display Modes Rate This Thread
Rate This Thread:

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
First Date Ideas Ratfish256 Love Advice forum 5 22-07-04 10:25 PM
aniversary ideas starprincess05 Love Advice forum 4 23-05-04 12:36 PM
Need ideas for 2nd date... BankyTheHack Love Advice forum 3 29-03-04 06:33 AM
Please help with gift ideas! celestial Love Advice forum 4 16-09-03 08:43 AM
2 year anniv....gift ideas anone??? Celeste Love Advice forum 7 01-09-03 05:31 AM


All times are GMT +8. The time now is 08:32 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.6.8
Copyright ©2000 - 2008, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97