Originally Posted by
Lovebubble
Once my mates told me this stripper spread her legs in the air, shoved a candle up her pussy, lit it and then sprayed aerosol so it flamed up
I think I would faint out of pure shock if I saw a woman do that.. (and not in a good way)
Well, I didn't notice that you were asking for advice on your actual routine, I thought you were just asking about the music.. but since it's a little clear now..
- Look up some videos on women stripping..
1. Kate (from Kate's Playground, courtesy of my brother)
2. Raven Riley (Warning! XXX-rated, so look through carefully)
3. Puma Swede (type her name in with "lap-dance", you should get the video)
4. Go to "evilchili" and search up "strip, lap-dance".. they always have tons of videos from professional strippers
All those videos are going to give you a feel for.. is the rhythm.. that's it! Just the rhythm.. and the rhythm is.. inside your head.. count.. 1..2.. hip movement.. 1.. 2.. hip movement.. That's it.. it's really simple..
As you're counting.. be moving your hips and your body in general.. (i'll get more specific) but when you reach to that final count.. start to switch to the other side.. for example.. if you're moving your butt towards the left.. and it reaches the left of the count of 2.. start to move it towards the right.. and as you do that.. make sure it takes 2 seconds.. At first, you'll have to think about it.. but as you practice, you'll start to notice how you'll get better and more natural at it.. and how this rhythm is more natural and automatic..
Now, the big question is.. "what do I do?".. before we get to that.. I think I have to stress the most mind-blowing, sexy part about a strip..
MENTALITY
- At that moment, YOU are, the sexiest thing in the room, and in his mind.. you are the sexiest object representing sexual arousal and pleasure.. And at that moment, you're turning him on to such a high degree of sexual arousal, and he's just letting go and surrendering to the unlimited supply of pleasure you're giving him.. And what's sexy is, that this is what YOU are thinking, this is what you KNOW.. and for as long as you KNOW this.. in your mind, as fact.. Your face and body will show it and reflect it naturally..
BODY
- What you should be doing with your body are two things.. (1) Having fun, "auto-erotic gestures such as self-touching on the breasts, hips, tummy, legs, butt, hair, lips, neck, etc.. wherever it feels right.. just have fun".. (2) Using your body as a tool, for his sexual pleasure.. again, refer back to mentality.. you KNOW that this is what you're giving him at this point.. and imagine this powerful and very potent sexual energy that your body has.. and at first he can't handle it fully.. so you have to slowly build up.. teasing.. and then transition to more full-on contact..
FACE
- Personally, the hottest part is the face.. and everything it communicates.. the non-verbal message it says.. "I know i'm getting you turned on.. I know i'm making you lose control.. I know you can't take it anymore.. looks like someone's happy.. looks like things are looking up for you.. down boy.. not yet".. don't try too hard.. (I recently went to Tampa, and went to both the Dollhouse & Mons Venus.. fake-faces were major turn-offs)
ROUTINE
- It pains me to repost this, because this girl never called me back.. but, if you have the time, read through
Tampa & TXB (Long) to get an idea of some techniques
POINTERS
- Breathing slowly down the neck and ear
- Softly purring/humming nasally into his ear
- Massaging the back of his head and neck and tugging on his hair
- Placing his hands on your thighs, hips, waist, and breasts
- Falling back onto him as you turn your head over your shoulder to look at him and continue to dance
- Use your butt to grind on his (cough cough) while he's sitting down
- As you're grinding, use you hand to slowly and softly work up and down his shaft
- Keep grinding and now stroke the shaft harder and with more assertiveness (or playfully, depending what he's into)
- Go back to grinding with no hands, and slowly transition onto hands again, and keep repeating..
- If he's too much of a doof to throw you on the bed after a certain point.. lead him to the bed yourself.. just go on the bed, make yourself comfy, and gesture for him to come join you..
Lastly, enjoy yourself, and have fun.. that's the most important thing..
Best,
GrkScorp