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27-02-08, 06:57 AM
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| | | pity sex? so I had sex with my next-door neighbor in my apartment complex. Im not attracted to him. I wasnt horny. I wasnt bored. I felt kind of bad for him though, he is a scrawny ginger same age as me who lives by himself. I live by myself too most the time and its nice to just knock on his door and ask if he wants to go grocery shopping and stupid little chores to have company.
I told him upfront Im seeing other people, no boyfriend but on dates. even after I told him that he thought i was a virgin by the way i kept not letting him touch me much, i didnt want to do it and I didnt want to lead him on because I know I dont want to date him. I dont know why exactly I let him get as far as he did.
Think theres nothing wrong being friends/neighbors with benefits, just having fun and each others company or is this going to work its way around and somehow blow up in my face? Im sure it would hurt him to see me bring a date home. Then again I was honest with him and Im cute and let him have his way so he should be happy for that and expect me to continue seeing other people? meh
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27-02-08, 07:54 AM
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| | | It'll blow up in your face if he starts liking you.
Let me get this straight - you slept with him for no other reason than you figured HE needed to get laid? I'm sure if he knew that, it would be an awful crushing blow to his ego.
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27-02-08, 08:07 AM
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27-02-08, 08:37 AM
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| | | Umm, don't know what to say.
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27-02-08, 09:04 AM
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27-02-08, 09:24 AM
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| | | omg what if he calls you and says he caught whatever disease you have?
that would ****ing suck.
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27-02-08, 09:43 AM
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Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose  Im sure it would hurt him to see me bring a date home. I would worry more about how it would hurt your date than him.
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27-02-08, 09:43 AM
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| | Most likely it will blow up in your face as most things like that do
Now what was the REAL reason you had sex with him? 
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27-02-08, 11:12 AM
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27-02-08, 12:18 PM
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27-02-08, 12:24 PM
| | | | He'll be looking forward to having sex again. I would too, if I were him. Decline, and explain to him that it was somewhat awkward (not his fault) and you'd rather just be friends, as you were before.
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27-02-08, 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted by lilwing He'll be looking forward to having sex again. I would too, if I were him. Decline, and explain to him that it was somewhat awkward (not his fault) and you'd rather just be friends, as you were before. Lol, yea tell him you gave him the wrong sugar by accident. | | The Following User Says Thank You to IndiReloaded For This Useful Post: | | |
27-02-08, 10:27 PM
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Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose I'm sure it would hurt him to see me bring a date home. If you care then I think you are a little hurt too... and now.
As you posted, there's nothing wrong in being friends with benefits... while you have the benefits. If any of you cut those benefits, the other may wonder why, torture himself about what happened and eventually get hurt.
That's life, sorry.
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28-02-08, 09:42 AM
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| | | haha a feeling of regret??
anyhow, if i were this guy, i'd hit up your door every week just to try to get laid. you might have said no, but once he's gotten into your pants, the possibilities are endless.
however, as to why you did it, there's nothing wrong with it. everyone needs a good f*ck once in a while.
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28-02-08, 09:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Illusional everyone needs a good f*ck once in a while. amen, amen, amen... 
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