Very silly question 'bout condoms - Love Forum

Sweeney · #1 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 04:30 AM

.... or rather, not using condoms.
I've never had sex without condoms, and some other topic made me wonder what happens if you have sex without the rubber. All the mess gets inside the girl. Then what? Squeeze it all out again?

I always fall asleep pretty quickly after sex, after kicking the sausage with its wrapping out and cleaning a bit with some paper towels... I just can't imagine what/how I'd have to clean without the condoms..

Can anyone fill me in?

Gigabitch · #2 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 04:38 AM

This is yet another reason why girls like condoms. Yes- the mess IS a pain to deal with. It's not like you can just wipe it off- it gets way up there. You have to take a shower or a bath, or douche, but that's not good for the delicate Ph balance of the vagina.

Condoms can be irritating, but they sure are tidier.

Charlie Boy II · #3 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 04:44 AM

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Charlie Boy II · #4 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 04:45 AM

ph balance of the vagina!? What the f-ck? It's a vagina. It's not a swimming pool.

Gigabitch · #5 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 04:54 AM

Dude. I assume you haven't encountered a yeast infection up close yet. Pray that you don't.

Charlie Boy II · #6 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 04:57 AM

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bluesummer · #7 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 09:17 AM

Yes, this is the only reason I like condoms. I've only done the non-condom thing twice while young and on the pill (thinking it was 'safe') and it was kinda gross. It kind of leaks out slowly, like having your monthly problem.....without the blood. Yucky.

I actually used feminine products the day after to catch the 'leakage'.....I'm not really down with the whole douching thing....my mom used to do that back in the '80s so it makes me think of my mom. Ew.

Mishanya · #8 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 09:31 AM

Meh, whats a bit of mess anyway?

Doesn't anyone have that nice warm bath with their partner afterwards with aroma and sea salt?

Water under the bridge

bluesummer · #9 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 09:43 AM

I'd love to do that, but my bf is 6'2", and I'm 5'7". As it is, we're too tall to go in the bathtub SOLO, nevermind together. It would be more uncomfortable than romantic.

Mishanya · #10 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 10:27 AM

So was me and my ex, we found a way to make it romantic

Sounds like what you guys need is a spa

DoesntMatter · #11 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 10:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gigabitch

You have to take a shower or a bath, or douche, but that's not good for the delicate Ph balance of the vagina.

pH giga, pH

Ashliejae · #12 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 11:09 AM

well heres a way to look at it, you should most definitely urinate after sex. and clean up down in that area there is no real need for a shower. You know its kind of made to go there if you think about it. It wont hurt you or make it smell bad as long as you take care of your vaginal area. Eat yogart that sort of a thing. It wont just come running down your leg you body absorbs the protein. And if you get some on your body rub it in its great for your skin. Its just fluid you all sound like your afraid of it.

vashti · #13 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 11:55 AM

No shower? Just rub it in? You kind of grossed me out, ashliejay. And what evidence do you have that it is great for the skin?

miSSleepy · #14 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Ashliejae

well heres a way to look at it, you should most definitely urinate after sex. and clean up down in that area there is no real need for a shower. You know its kind of made to go there if you think about it. It wont hurt you or make it smell bad as long as you take care of your vaginal area. Eat yogart that sort of a thing. It wont just come running down your leg you body absorbs the protein. And if you get some on your body rub it in its great for your skin. Its just fluid you all sound like your afraid of it.

urinate? Um, wrong hole.
And what's yoghurt got to do with anything? I don't think semen absorbs into the skin, it just dries up and you get residue.

and as for the pH... our whole body has a pH and needs to remain fairly constant. Pools are not the only things with a pH.

Ashliejae · #15 (**permalink**) 26-03-08, 12:14 PM

Go buy The New Joy of SEX 2 i dont know what page i have been packing an my book is packed away but if youwant me to dig it out to prove my point i will and its not a big deal omg body fluids RUN SOAP GET IT QUICK. come on its not really that gross we are an overly clean society. Now im not saying dont bathe my god make sure you bathe but if you get a little big of man on your leg dont worry and if he didnt pull out dont freak just relax as long as you do not do it every day its not a big deal