He prefers porn over sex, is this normal?

[Illusional]

that's the same thing that i'm saying. her bf is over her physical attributes and is seeking new eye candy in other places.

still. being in how ever long a relationship, how many people do you think have honestly wondering what it would like to have sex with another person other than their partner?? i think almost all. just because you're in a committed relationship doesn't mean that your mind will wonder. true, people will be faithful, but what is kept to one's self isn't considered cheated to me.

raverboy

[Asparagoose]

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Originally Posted by Cain

It's no surprise she's your ex.

Manners? Tone of voice? Don't you think you're being a little rude? Especially to a moderator?

[Asparagoose]

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Originally Posted by Illusional

that's the same thing that i'm saying. her bf is over her physical attributes and is seeking new eye candy in other places.

Yeah, but I think you're both saying the same thing. That's why it's more than just physical. If all that mattered was the physical part of it, then we would all be watching porn and going to the whore house occasionally to grab some boobs and butts. But there's more than that. If the guy really loves her, he's not going to be watching porn all day and neglecting her. That's just wrong.

[Illusional]

haha relax goosey... i welcome all comments. keep in mind that i give most of the negatives ones, i'm able to handle my own.

raverboy

[vashti]

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Originally Posted by Illusional

i'm able to handle my own.

Good thing too, since you can't get anyone else to handle it.

[Cain]

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Originally Posted by Asparagoose

Manners? Tone of voice? Don't you think you're being a little rude? Especially to a moderator?

Tone of voice? It's good to know you can hear my tone through my text......

Just because someone wears the moderator tag doesn't mean they're immune to debates.

[Cain]

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Originally Posted by Illusional

that's the same thing that i'm saying. her bf is over her physical attributes and is seeking new eye candy in other places.

still. being in how ever long a relationship, how many people do you think have honestly wondering what it would like to have sex with another person other than their partner?? i think almost all. just because you're in a committed relationship doesn't mean that your mind will wonder. true, people will be faithful, but what is kept to one's self isn't considered cheated to me.

raverboy

I definitely think this guy is losing his attraction for her if he has to use porn to get off. I know some guys like to imagine what it would be like with someone else every now and then, but most of the time they still enjoy sex with the person they're with. This guy just seems to not be able to get off with her...

[Asparagoose]

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Originally Posted by Cain

Just because someone wears the moderator tag doesn't mean they're immune to debates.

It's unfortunate to know that you clearly have issues with affording people some token respect. Also, you're not really debating if the stance you both take is the same. Unless it makes you feel better to think that you're going against a moderator. Give yourself a pat on the back for winning a pretend argument and acting hardass online.

[Asparagoose]

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Originally Posted by nacho

I am a very attractive redhead.

I think your boyfriend is just plain old insensitive and immature. There's no way he doesn't find you attractive enough to have sex with. Don't even start to think that, because that's just wrong.

Try and talk things out. If it doesn't work out, give me your number and we'll go out for coffee sometime. ; )

[Cain]

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Originally Posted by Asparagoose

It's unfortunate to know that you clearly have issues with affording people some token respect. Also, you're not really debating if the stance you both take is the same. Unless it makes you feel better to think that you're going against a moderator. Give yourself a pat on the back for winning a pretend argument and acting hardass online.

Same stance? He was saying that it's fine to imagine ****ing other girls while being in a relationship. I was saying how that's not right. Same stance? RIght.

[Cain]

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Originally Posted by Asparagoose

I think your boyfriend is just plain old insensitive and immature. There's no way he doesn't find you attractive enough to have sex with. Don't even start to think that, because that's just wrong.

Try and talk things out. If it doesn't work out, give me your number and we'll go out for coffee sometime. ; )

Oh no! Can't do the online thing. That'd make you a loser.

[Asparagoose]

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Originally Posted by Illusional

that's the same thing that i'm saying. her bf is over her physical attributes and is seeking new eye candy in other places.

Same stance. I guess you missed that.

[Asparagoose]

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Originally Posted by Cain

Oh no! Can't do the online thing. That'd make you a loser.

Clearly a joke to try and cheer her up. Wow. You're a really angry person man. Relax. You must not go out much.

[Cain]

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Originally Posted by Asparagoose

Clearly a joke to try and cheer her up. Wow. You're a really angry person man. Relax. You must not go out much.

I love how you can joke but no one else can. See, the problem with text is that you can't hear the person's tone. Instead of assuming I'm joking, you always assume I'm throwing my keyboard around and punching holes in the wall whilst replying to your posts.

[Cain]

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Originally Posted by Asparagoose

Same stance. I guess you missed that.

That isn't even the topic I was debating with him. I said in my post where we were differing in opinion.