Advice plss?

[Jak08]

Hey, ive been going out with my gf for just over a year, i love her sooooooo much and weve even talked bout gettin married, btw were both 15.

we havent had sex but weve done like most of the other stuff, but whenever she "finishes me off" with her hand, it can hurt her, she says she wants to do it and she refuses to stop until i .............yno but i feel really guilty about it, even tho she swears she wants to do it.

should i feel guilty??

[bohemiandonut]

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Originally Posted by Jak08

Hey, ive been going out with my gf for just over a year, i love her sooooooo much and weve even talked bout gettin married, btw were both 15.

we havent had sex but weve done like most of the other stuff, but whenever she "finishes me off" with her hand, it can hurt her, she says she wants to do it and she refuses to stop until i .............yno but i feel really guilty about it, even tho she swears she wants to do it.

should i feel guilty??

You mean you blow your load with such force you feel guilty about possibly inflicting bodily harm? You should just control your aim, man.

If you mean that sex would hurt her... well, yeah, it probably would. A lot. Both physically and emotionally. Also, it could hurt you too, especially if she has any older male family members that could ever find out.

Why don't you give it to her for her 16th birthday present? I think that sounds charming. But you have a big responsibility here kid, so think twice before taking away this girl's innocence.

[vashti]

I don't understand how this can hurt her.

That said, you are both kids. Keep your penis in your pants where it belongs.

[Imsomeones]

too young, keep the snake in the cage

[sine24]

what are you on about little boy? First things first..marriage? are you kidding me? please, do the world a favour and get a job before you consider such a silly idea. you are 15! and as for your post..i dont understand what you mean. when she "finishes you off with her hand"..how is it that she can get hurt? is she giving a cactus a handjob or what? i really think you should communicate a little bit better with your lady friend..and perhaps a bit better for us too. If you really think you're ready for sex, be mature about it, instead of referring to ejaculation, i assume, as "yno".

ASIDE: i was flabbergasted when i watched a documentary featuring a teenager who lossed her virginity at the age of 12, and fell pregnant at 15. what are kids doing these days. i mean, i was running around playing tips with my school friends at that age. thats just too young..