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15-04-04, 03:13 AM
|  | Forever melancholy "Hot Love Pancake(s)" | | Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Near Vancouver, Canada
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| | | Ex sex....who's done it? Well, I admit to my own stupidity on this one, but my ex and I can't seem to stop sleeping with each other. What can I say, him and I both openly admit we are the best sex either of us has ever had, and it seems to be even better now. We're still best friends and love each other a lot, but I feel kinda bad cuz he's actually 'seeing' someone else, though I also feel wickedly delighted in it at the same time. Anyone else ever fell into the ex-sex trap? And how did it make you feel? I feel like a bit of an asshole, but I can't help thinking this chick is getting what she deserves too ( long story), so Im kind of torn. | | Loveforum Breaktime | | |  | Loveforum also recommend - Green tea - Help in weight loss and decrease rate of getting cancer.
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15-04-04, 03:22 AM
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| | | *raises hand*
Yup, three times in fact after we broke up. Once last summer and uh twice this past winter.
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15-04-04, 03:41 AM
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| | | LMFAO
I had a threesome with destine (ex wife) and robin (ex girlfriend) after i broke up with robin and was with destine... So yeah i think that counts...
And what do I think about it ?! I WAS AN IDIOT!!!!
I got Robin pregnant and she just gave birth to the damn kid last week - Turns out it IS my kid...
so yeah - no sex for me unless I am with that person - which is no one atm - so no sex for me atm
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15-04-04, 03:43 AM
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| | ummm twice... and it was soooooo goood!!!!! to bad he moved away 
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15-04-04, 05:59 AM
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| | | *hangs head in shame* ... yeah me too
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15-04-04, 06:41 AM
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| | same here. it's sex without the good feelings, you just want some... 
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17-04-04, 10:00 AM
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| | | *stands up tall* why is everyone ashamed of this for? if you're horny your friend will also stand up when he wants something. i feel that as long as none of you has been with another person, it's still good. after you or the other person has been tainted by another person, the feelings aren't the same. with my ex, i would sleep with her all the time. then finally it got to the point where i would have to go to her, and hell no!!! i didn't like that idea so we stopped. i loved wearing the pants in the relationship. however after he and her ex after me broke up, i wouldn't fool around with her again. it's that feelings that someone else has been there after you, and you don't wanna be tasting or feeling any of him. raverboy
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17-04-04, 01:09 PM
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| | Yeah, I told him if he starts sleeing with the other chick, then the booty train stops. I'll be honest, I don't really feel that guilty, Im getting mine, he's getting his, and the sex is awesome. I told him so. I think he knows it won't be as good with her either, so he's not quite ready to make the 'transition'........  | | 
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| | | ive also been down that road, i went out with this one girl for only a week and about 2weeks after we broke up, we slept together. and then about 2 months ago we did it yet again, we are both in other relationships but we comin bak to each other | | 
19-04-04, 05:08 AM
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| | Did you people just want the sex? Or was it some kind of bond thing you had with the other person? I've done it with one person,(for about a year after we broke up and he WAS seeing someone else), but it was because I was still in love with him. I thought by holding onto the sex and intimacy that he would see we were still good together. NOT a good idea. That was a hard one to get over. Now, there has to be feelings on BOTH sides or I just can't do it. It feels empty.  | | 
19-04-04, 06:03 AM
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| | | No we had sex after she broke up with me because the feelings were still there, because we had a bond prematurally broken up after 2 wonderful years.
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