wetting the bed?

[Tashi]

Alright, this may sound stupid and all, but i have honestly never heard of ANYONE having this problem, which seriously confuses me.

Whenever me and my fiancee does something, she is pretty safe as she doesn't leak much, but me as a guy, is acting pretty much like a tap turned on a little. I have to use; paper og keep wearing my pants, which are then totally soaked.

How the hell do you guys avoid that? Am I that strange, or don't you care about that huge wet pool on the bed?

And besides that, we aren't having sex, never. And she isn't giving me oral either, and even if she did, I don't think it would help me anything at all....

I am considering getting condoms simply so i don't have to use paper or my pants, as both makes it a lot harder for her to get me off, which sometimes leads to me feeling too sorry for her, and then me not being able to get off >.> and her getting a sore arm for trying for too long X.x

And incase anybody is still not aware, I DON'T refer to peeing in bed >.> Thats just disgusting

[misombra]

what ARE you referring too exactly?

[Tashi]

petting i think it is called? >.> we satisfy each other, but not through sex. We keep at the foreplay level right now.

[vashti]

wear a rubber or keep a clean towel nearby.

[Tashi]

eh, yeah, might >.< but the whole rubber thing... I am pretty afraid of her thinking I want more because i wear one >.<

[bohemiandonut]

Your grammar makes me want to vomit.

[lesa]

Use a towel.

[GrkScorp]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tashi

I am considering getting condoms simply so i don't have to use paper or my pants, as both makes it a lot harder for her to get me off, which sometimes leads to me feeling too sorry for her, and then me not being able to get off >.> and her getting a sore arm for trying for too long X.x

HANDJOBS.., or.., MANUAL SEX
(petting? wtf?)

Anyway.., you obviously take your pants off.., especially if you're wearing jeans.., how can you even maintain a hard-on with them on?

When you're about to finish.., lie back.., and let it all land on your stomach.., or be side-to-side and let it all land on her stomach.., or ass.., or face.., etc..

Try letting her "pet" you in the shower.., or on the beach.., etc..

You have to clean up.., there's no other way around it.., but you can give it some thought ahead of time and plan for where it's going to land.., to manage it a little bit better after the fact..

Best,

GrkScorp

[Gigabitch]

If you think it's bad now, wait until you see the wet spot on your sheets after having actual sex.

[Tashi]

yeah, sorry for grammar mistakes, i seriously hate grammar, no matter what langauge we are talking about here -.-

but yeah, it IS hard, which is why it is a problem :/ well, often i open my pants, mainly because it is impossible for her otherwise, and because it starts to hurt sometimes.

but alright, reading this I suddenly feel stupid >.> I don't even know what was supposed to happen, but then again, my knowledge about this is very close to 0, and I don't really want to search on places like google to find the answer, cause all you usually find is some pretty disgusting sites, which i would rather not visit... I want to know about this stuff, but not that way.

[Tedel]

Did you see a doctor about it? I mean, it could be just some prostatic juice dropping (you are excited, after all) or the sexual tension you're feeling is making you have urinal incontinence. A doctor can easily help you solve both of them, so go see one!

[IndiReloaded]

Try going to the bathroom just before you two get hot & heavy (i.e. before you get hard).

There's nothing wrong w/you & don't feel stupid for asking. At least you asked! But if the bathroom thing doesn't work, you think there's still too much liquid, talk to your doc.

'Petting' is a word from my generation. From the long lost days of a polite society. Nothing wrong w/it. Young ppl won't recognize it usually.