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Mere mortal · #1 (**permalink**) 02-08-04, 04:40 AM

hi every body
this is my first time

ive read your stuff and they are so cool u all really know your stuff !
ive been having a problem .. im 16 years old and since ive been reading your threads here ive been wanting to get some .. im a virgin and from a protective family .. so i must remain virgin so cant get ****ed till marrige .. some of u talk about having pleasure by just masterbating ... i try to rub my pussy but i dont feel some pleasure ? am i not taking my time or am i doing it wrong ? i wish feel the rush of sex even for a few seconds

but i dont seem to do it right .. i wanna cum too but i cant even if i watch a dirty scene .. i only feel a bit of a tickle down there .. if u all can help me id be so gratefull

blue · #2 (**permalink**) 02-08-04, 04:46 AM

you just have to keep trying dont get frustrated try some lube definatley & maybe you can figure out how to get your hands on a mini massager or a rabbit, you kind of just have to rub one out & it will come. Stay relaxed and calm try to do it when you are not going to be disturbed, play with the little man in the boat he likes to be toyed with. good luck

Mere mortal · #3 (**permalink**) 02-08-04, 04:56 AM

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Originally Posted by blue

you just have to keep trying dont get frustrated try some lube definatley & maybe you can figure out how to get your hands on a mini massager or a rabbit, you kind of just have to rub one out & it will come. Stay relaxed and calm try to do it when you are not going to be disturbed, play with the little man in the boat he likes to be toyed with. good luck

thank you for replyin

but whats lube whats a rabbit ?? im so sorry but i dont have a man to play with

blue · #4 (**permalink**) 02-08-04, 04:57 AM

ky jellyis the lube a rabbit is a sex toy that penetrates and at the same time works your clit.

Mere mortal · #5 (**permalink**) 02-08-04, 05:02 AM

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Originally Posted by blue

ky jellyis the lube a rabbit is a sex toy that penetrates and at the same time works your clit.

when it goes in do i lose my virginity ?

i kinda wanna lose it for som1 special and i dont wanna wait so im askin for other ways ..
and how do i know if i cum ? how much is the amount of cum ??

Spanaway55 · #6 (**permalink**) 02-08-04, 07:45 AM

from what ive heard, you cant lose your virginity by using a toy, unless its a dildo and you break your hymen with it. The way you know if someone is a virgin, is if they still have their hymen, it is in your vagina, and when a a penis penetrates the vagina far enough it will break or "pop" it open, and that could be known as "popping her cherry" as some guys put it, and it will hurt a little so you will know.

Im a guy so as far as i know you dont lose ur virginity to a vibrating toy, but i dont know could be wrong, ladies??

Mere mortal · #7 (**permalink**) 02-08-04, 08:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Spanaway55

from what ive heard, you cant lose your virginity by using a toy, unless its a dildo and you break your hymen with it. The way you know if someone is a virgin, is if they still have their hymen, it is in your vagina, and when a a penis penetrates the vagina far enough it will break or "pop" it open, and that could be known as "popping her cherry" as some guys put it, and it will hurt a little so you will know.

Im a guy so as far as i know you dont lose ur virginity to a vibrating toy, but i dont know could be wrong, ladies??

thanks man .. i just called my friend and shes gunna get me a rabbit she knows these stuff better ..

but u didnt answer me fully ? how do i know if its cum .. i hear its hot liqued but all i get is wet inside nothin sprays

Spanaway55 · #8 (**permalink**) 02-08-04, 09:15 AM

oh well sometimes it "sprays" "drips" "squirts" you know its different for all amounts of come, but you should be pretty sure, it will be a slear liquid, kind of sticky, and can sometimes be a bit murky (not all clear) you will know when its come, because you will have marvelous sensations, right before the climax, trust me you will feel it coming!

blue · #9 (**permalink**) 02-08-04, 09:19 PM

no you cannot loose your virginity by masterbating. and you will definatley feel it when you come i mean its hot and tingly and you can feel it coming from deep inside and then there is a release that is fantastic. Have fun

SeXehBloNde · #10 (**permalink**) 03-08-04, 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Spanaway55

from what ive heard, you cant lose your virginity by using a toy, unless its a dildo and you break your hymen with it. The way you know if someone is a virgin, is if they still have their hymen, it is in your vagina, and when a a penis penetrates the vagina far enough it will break or "pop" it open, and that could be known as "popping her cherry" as some guys put it, and it will hurt a little so you will know.

Im a guy so as far as i know you dont lose ur virginity to a vibrating toy, but i dont know could be wrong, ladies??

Not necessarily true. Some women's hymens are torn when they are fingered, so when they have sex for the first time, no bleeding occurs because the hymen has already been torn. Also, its known that some women are born without a hymen, so you can't tell for sure if a woman is a virgin or not by her hymen.

britishchick · #11 (**permalink**) 03-08-04, 08:43 PM

That is so true blonde..i never bled or anything the first time i had sex and it wasn't painful at all either, i think i lost my hymen from doing a lot of sports and dancing which can be the case with a lot of females.

nendo · #12 (**permalink**) 04-08-04, 03:32 AM

i always counted that u lose ur virginity when u have sex. i know its not actualy that but it always made more sense to me that u loss ur virginity after u have sex for the first time.

have u just tried to relax and just gently rub ur clit. maybe close ur eyes and get some audio of a man and just listen to it while u rub with ur eyes closed. rememberit takes loger for a woman to orgasm or cum than a man does on average. for men bout 5-10 minutes. women 5-20 minutes. i think

Mere mortal · #13 (**permalink**) 04-08-04, 04:36 AM

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Originally Posted by nendo

i always counted that u lose ur virginity when u have sex. i know its not actualy that but it always made more sense to me that u loss ur virginity after u have sex for the first time.

have u just tried to relax and just gently rub ur clit. maybe close ur eyes and get some audio of a man and just listen to it while u rub with ur eyes closed. rememberit takes loger for a woman to orgasm or cum than a man does on average. for men bout 5-10 minutes. women 5-20 minutes. i think

thanx nendo .. i tried rubbin it in a gentle way and in a rough way ,, ive tried it for 45 mins and i was watchin porn .. but it didnt work .. is it cuz im too young too cum i mean im 16 ?? ive lost hope to feel the pleasure of masterbation .. and i wanna ask .. i saw this woman who was masterbaiting and she just rubbed her pussy and touched her boobs without puttin anything in her and she cummed so much .. it was like her pussy threw up .. i wanna feel that way too but i cant seem too ..

nendo · #14 (**permalink**) 04-08-04, 04:43 AM

keep trying and it will happen sometime. maybe because ur new to it? it need to be activated or something.

i found this on www.bbc.xo.uk/so

Virginity, or being a virgin, is when you haven't had sexual intercourse. You 'lose your virginity' when, and only when, you have sex for the first time.

How do I know if I'm still a virgin?
If you've had sex - even if his penis was only inside your vagina for a second, or if he didn't ejaculate (come) - then you’re not a virgin. However, masturbating, using tampons or being fingered by someone else doesn’t mean you’ve lost your virginity.

not sure bout dildos tough.

Mere mortal · #15 (**permalink**) 04-08-04, 04:50 AM

hey thanx alot man but .. iknow about virginity and the site didnt open .. if only i can know how to masterbaite the right way .. do pillows work !!!!!! im so desprate