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Old 14-08-08, 08:13 AM
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Anyway, so I haven't been able to get my girlfriend to orgasm vaginally, yet. I'm talkin' little more than penis+vagina action=orgasm.

Problem is, that once she really starts to get into it, squeezing me, "OOH"-ing, and the such, I just lose it, and struggle not to ejaculate, which means I have to slow or stop and the most crucial moments.

Now, I've seen these in the store before, so I picked them up last night:



"Extended Pleasure".

Basically, there's a mild desensitizer inside the condom, but nothing that would cause the condom to slip off.

I slipped it on, and already crazy aroused after going down on her, I was already a few steps away from blowin' my load. But within about a minute, I definitely became numb down there. Not to the point where I couldn't experience any pleasure, but just enough where I wouldn't have to worry about blowin' my load while thrusting 100 MPH as hard as I could.

In fact she actually resigned on trying to go for the gold.

So, I was numb enough where I'd have to concentrate hard on cumming, so I flipped her around, and went at it doggy. The visual really gets me goin' (that aaaaass), and pounded her good and hard. The results?

Copious, to say the least.

This condom easily stroked my ego more than my dick, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

Just think, porn star sex.
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Old 14-08-08, 08:17 AM
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I don't use condoms. I can't get off with one on. I don't know why, because I've tried... but I just can't get off. We'll go 45 minutes and I'm still not close.

Luckily though, I can control myself while having sex. I'd recommend you start practicing controlling your load so you don't have to rely on those things.
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Old 14-08-08, 08:19 AM
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I don't use condoms. I can't get off with one on. I don't know why, because I've tried... but I just can't get off. We'll go 45 minutes and I'm still not close.

Luckily though, I can control myself while having sex. I'd recommend you start practicing controlling your load so you don't have to rely on those things.
Y'know for somebody who condemns others who sleep around, even with protection, I wouldn't expect you to encourage going without the latex baby killers.

You're skirting the line of hypocrite.
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Old 14-08-08, 08:22 AM
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Y'know for somebody who condemns others who sleep around, even with protection, I wouldn't expect you to encourage going without the latex baby killers.

You're skirting the line of hypocrite.
I'm talking to you... someone that's in a committed relationship.
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Old 14-08-08, 08:26 AM
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I'm committed, but I'm also twice more cautious.

In any case, if I skip a day of sex, I get highly sensitized.

Yesterday was cool because I had a lot more control as to when I wanted to bust. There was no build up until I wanted it.
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Old 14-08-08, 08:31 AM
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I'm committed, but I'm also twice more cautious.

In any case, if I skip a day of sex, I get highly sensitized.

Yesterday was cool because I had a lot more control as to when I wanted to bust. There was no build up until I wanted it.
Cautious or not, I don't see a problem with you having sex because you're with a girl you've been in a relationship with for a while. You're not out at the club whoring yourself out to anyone that wants to get laid.

I'm not sure why you get sensitized. I mean, I understand that it'd be easier for you to get off, but I dunno how it'd be that quick. It's 3 weeks in between sessions with me and my girl and I seem to be fine, though it does get harder. After a bit I have to actually concentrate on not going, and that seems to work. Sometimes I slow down to make it easier but I continue her stimulation so she doesn't notice it. Then when I'm ready and she's close, I start going faster until I go and by then she's already orgasmed.
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Old 14-08-08, 08:34 AM
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Who cares why I get sensitized?

And who said how "quick" it was?

I don't recall mentioning a time frame.
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Old 14-08-08, 08:46 AM
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Who cares how quick it is? It's quick enough that you need help not to go before her.
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I'm surprised she's being so patient with you... leaving all that copper just laying around.
Ugh.

Why don't you try reading first.
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I tried those condoms a few yrs ago when they came out and they really should say on the label "can't feel shit." I can remember absolutely killing myself to blow my load with one of those on. Not exactly what I'd call my ideal sexual experience. And not to mention that those condoms smell ungodly terrible, at least from what I recall. More power to you if they work for you, but one box was definitely enough for me.
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Ugh.

Why don't you try reading first.
I read the threads I post in.

The copper thing was a joke that about seven other people participated in.

And all I'm saying is try to figure out how to not be quick without having to use an extended pleasure condom. Shit. It's not that hard.
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I think it is fantastic you can have a choice now, Fras... If you want a quickie, then you don't wear the desensitizer... if you want to fcuk like a porn star, you can pop one on. It's all good.
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numb the feeling?? instead just drink and then have sex. i always last longer when i'm drunk.

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And all I'm saying is try to figure out how to not be quick without having to use an extended pleasure condom. Shit. It's not that hard.
Quick?

Who said quick?

I didn't say quick.

Stop putting lies in my threads.
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