Advice for two virgins

[chrisodeo]

I'm 18, and I'm a virgin. Seems pathetic, but it's really not. My gf is turning 18 in a few days. We've been together for a while, and we just decided to, you know, try out her new official adulthood. The problem is, we're both virgins. We don't know the half of sex. I'm sure there's a guide somewhere on the net, but I figured I'd get advice from people who know what they're talking about. That, and I thought I'd give y'all a challenge to work with. (/sarcasm)

[Illusional]

well how long have the two of you been going out? that is usually a big question that everyone will ask. secondly there is nothing wrong with waiting. gimme your feedback. raverboy

[squirrley]

how long have YOU guys been going out? Im sure your'e anxious to experiment and step out into adulthood...but if youre both ready you should be well informed. Take some time together and look into these things...

safe sex for #1...you dont want your first time to end up where youre a parent-doubt youre ready for that...so look into forms of protection for you guys...

then the rest should come natural-but in my opinion you guys should take your time...

[KaWaiiSkYe]

Not for allll people it doesn't come naturally.. they just kinda spaz it up first.. Hahahaa... Sorry..

[sfalexi]

Hey. I give you guys major props for asking these Q's. At least even though you've decided to sleep together you want to make sure that you guys are informed and whatnot. If I may be allowed to provide a general information url, http://www.sexinfo101.com has lots of information. You really should read up on the different birth control methods there and also on http://www.plannedparenthood.org if you guys want to prevent little ones that you need to provide for and avoid the moral/physical/monetary complications of needing an abortion.

Although I think sex shouldn't be planned. There's plenty of other stuff you can get to do and try out before sex (and it ALL feels good!) In the meantime do your research on birth controls and, well, hell! Why not look up different ways to please each other? There's plenty of stuff out there for the adventerous and (dare I say it) 'kinky'. And make sure you see a doctor and are firmly established on a BC (birth control) plan BEFORE you engage in sex. If you don't know how long you'll hold out get birth control soon so that should the day arrive when you can't hold back any longer, at least you know that she's been on BC long enough that it's effective and won't have to worry about it.

Alexi

See ya guys in the forums.