Hey by the way hows it going with the woman you met with the kids?
We got in touch the next week and she says she'll be at a certain bar that saturday night. So I made plans with friends to go to the bar that night. Then she calls me that day (saturday)and says that her friends changed plans and decided to go to a different bar. Mine wouldn't change plans.
The next few times she called me, then told me she had to go for a second (like watching a movie when I called her or had to take care of an errand or someone else just called that she needed to talk to) and said she'd call right back, but didn't. So I figured she's playing some stupid hard to get gig and gave up on her.
About two/three weeks later I get a text message saying, "I guess ur mad at me. Why haven't u called?" So I call her and explain to her that if she says she'll call me right back, I expect to be called back. I told her I don't know what her deal was, but if someone tells me they're going to call me, I expect it. And when she DIDN'T call me back a few times, I figured that she had just decided not to and chaulked it up to her not wanting to go out with me. She apologized and said that was not the case, just that she forgot to call back.
So I said, "Allright. Since YOU'RE the one who has kids and has more time constraints than me, YOU decide what day to make plans for. I just ask that you let me know ahead of time so that I can make sure I don't plan anything else on that day." So we planned on Sunday to hang out tonight (she asked if another couple that she knew could come with us as a double date and I said sure. I figured she's probably bringing them along as some sort of safety thing in case I'm a psycho. She doesn't know me from one seeing as we've NEVER hung out). Then I get a call last night saying that the other couple doesn't have enough money to go out with us and neither does she so she's canceling (cause the Lord knows that mini-golfing really IS that expensive.) But then she texts me saying please don't think she's blowing me off.
I'm thinking that after about four weeks of non-returned phonecalls, canceled meetings, and just the general hassle, I'm deleting this one from the cellphone. It's not worth the aggravation. Sounds like she's playing some silly little game to get ME to call HER. Twice (TWICE!!!!) she's called me, let the cellphone ring once, then hung up not calling back (I think trying to get me to call her and say, "did you just call?")
Sorry Squirrel. I was willing to give her the shot, but she obviously wasn't willing to take it.
Alexi
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