Um.. Yeah.. Sex... This is weird...

[BillyGalbreath]

I am seriously starting to think something is wrong with me. I cant seem to picture me having sex with anyone anymore - not even fantasies. For some reason when I start to think about doin it with someone I get turned off. Like with Andira for example - She is totally the girl I would love to marry - I love to be around her - I love to kiss her - I love to hold her - But when I start to think about having sex with her I just get turned off...

I do this about anyone tho - so its not her - she is hot - I cant get off to porn or anything anymore... The only person I can think about having sex with is Destine. But I dont want to have sex with her. I dont want anything to do with her at all.

Its weird. I can watch pornos all day long and never once get even the slightest bit of a hard on. But if something in the past that me and destine have done sexually together its like BAM !!! there is Mr. Pepe popping out to say hello...

Women tha tused to turn me on, dont anymore... Britany Spears, Angelina Jolie, Heather Graham, Halle Barry, etc etc... I get nuthin - My Maxim magazine serves no purpose for me anymore... ...

What the hell is wrong with me ?! I need to get this fixed soon - whatever this is...

[Ironliftr3]

Maybe you're gay. Time to come out of the closet Billy!

[BillyGalbreath]

I am not gay damn it !

[squirrley]

LMFAO!!!!! well billy youre questioning it kinda? so whats the big deal? who really cares anyway-maybe BI is better? I dont know-but youre in a slump.

[Ironliftr3]

Just so long as your not getting turned on by little boys.

[Zekk_T_Strife]

I experienced that for quite a while. I could get off to porn and the like but if I fantasized about myself and someone else I'd instantly get turned off and lost all interest and mood. It was like that for a while, but now if I fantasize about my current interest who I'm REALLY into I have no problem. It may just be you need a new experience with someone really special to stimulate your mojo.

[squirrley]

your mojo!!! yea yea thats it!

By the way Zekk-YOUR song is awesome and I love it!!!!!

[Exodus]

Sometimes it'd be nice if I didn't get a hard on so much. I'll just get one for no reason sometimes.. Its so damn annoying lol. I notice its worse if I masturbate more often though. If I stop, it usually doesn't happen near as often when I don't want it to. Whenever I get close to women, or they even touch me semi close i usually get a hard on.. its so damn annoying lol. Like i was on a date with this girl and i ended up holding her hand while I was driving and i got one then... its like wtf... why are you up? lol. Or sometimes when i'm driving i'll get one just from the vibrations. Damn its annoying Anyone else have this problem? Or am I just gifted lol. Hmm sorry, didn't mean to steal your post... i'll try to reply to yours. You may just be stuck on her and thats why you still can't think about being with somone else... it'll probably pass in time, just keep trying! lol I dunno... I've never had that problem.

[Sweetness]

It sounds like your suffering from a real clinical problem due to too much pornagraphy. What happens is when you see too much of the fantasy, reality gets blurred and you can no longer react to it. Perhaps you just need to back off the fantasy and deal more with actual people. I'm not suggesting sex with more people but just back off the ideal of what makes a person appealing. Big fake breast are not the norm so keep that in mind. Just a suggestion. Also, not being sexual, perhaps contrary to what many think, doesn't make you crazy. It could just mean that you feel there's more to life than this one aspect of life.

Good luck!

[Zekk_T_Strife]

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Originally Posted by Exodus

Sometimes it'd be nice if I didn't get a hard on so much. I'll just get one for no reason sometimes.. Its so damn annoying lol. I notice its worse if I masturbate more often though. If I stop, it usually doesn't happen near as often when I don't want it to. Whenever I get close to women, or they even touch me semi close i usually get a hard on.. its so damn annoying lol. Like i was on a date with this girl and i ended up holding her hand while I was driving and i got one then... its like wtf... why are you up? lol. Or sometimes when i'm driving i'll get one just from the vibrations. Damn its annoying Anyone else have this problem? Or am I just gifted lol. Hmm sorry, didn't mean to steal your post... i'll try to reply to yours. You may just be stuck on her and thats why you still can't think about being with somone else... it'll probably pass in time, just keep trying! lol I dunno... I've never had that problem.

I have this same problem, always have. I disagree with sweetness's theory as this has been a problem for me long before I discovered pornography of any kind. Mad boners ensue regardless of my environment.

[BillyGalbreath]

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Originally Posted by Zekk_T_Strife

...Mad boners ensue regardless of my environment.

HAHA ! I remember those - I could be in school and then out of no where, BAM ! and I'm like WTF ?! I could be doing anything, homework, a test, watching a stupid school movie, eating lunch, nothing sexual at all is around me and it just pops up... That the main reason I started to wear baggy pants.

With baggy pants you could walk down the hall with a boner and no one knows. And when you sit down and there is a big bulg it just looks like its the pants. LMAO

The one place I hated to get mad boners was in the damn pool. THOSE you cant hide... I would just have to stay in the water until it went down, which sometimes took an hour... Yeah those sucked ass.

But anyways. My little problem has been fixed. I still haven't gotten any action, but I have started getting my morning wood back, and am able to masterbate again and enjoy it. but you all prolly dont care.

[sfalexi]

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Originally Posted by BillyGalbreath

The one place I hated to get mad boners was in the damn pool. THOSE you cant hide... I would just have to stay in the water until it went down, which sometimes took an hour... Yeah those sucked ass.

You (and anyone else that hasthis problem) might wanna do what I do. I wear a jock strap on underneath my bathing suit every time I go swimming. Not a cup, just the jock strap. I wear it low enough to make sure it doesn't portrude above the waistband, and I tuck the head of Mad Dog McRee (a pseudonym I just decided to use for "my penus") under the jock strap waistband.

I read or heard or just know from SOMEWHERE that the elastic pressure on your penus does something with the blood flow and helps to prevent it from becoming erect. So that's ONE advantage. Another one is if, for some reason, you CAN'T prevent it from becoming erect, the jock strap holds it in an upright position so you don't have to worry about the full fledged "tent" affect as it's trying to rise up and the shorts are stopping it. Lastly, it holds it close to your body so it's MUCH less noticeable since, unless you're wearing a VERY tight bathing suit, in which case you better be either European or Gay, it won't be pressed up against your bathing suit and it's very unlikely to be seen.

Alexi <---- who NEVER trusts Mad Dog McRee in a bathing suit.

[Exodus]

Hehe yeah... Good stuff eh? Aren't boners fun? lol. Ya know a fun time to get boners? When you're making out with your gf and then they decide they wanna move or walk around... hehe if your out in public you gotta be like, gimme a min... hehe. If its in private.. well hell then... i'd show it off lol. Yeah, i've got the mad boner syndrome roflmao.

[Zekk_T_Strife]

Well, see the biggest problem for me is that I get them so often that my pants have actually grown accustomed to the swollen appendage. Therefore even when I'm all fine and flacid my pants still have the dreaded "phantom boner". {sigh} My life is just cursed with the omniprescence of the phallus in one form or another.

[Fawn]

In one form or another I always took it as a compliment if a guy I was making out with got a boner. lol. I don't know why... maybe its the satisfaction that he finds me appealing just from kissing me.

I think the penis has a mind of its own. lol. Although I feel kinda bad for a guy when it starts popping out of no where for no reason at all. I guess it depends on where you are and who's around you too (in the case of whether or not they will judge the situation).