Need to know why!!!

[Mother]

Help me out here I'm new and want to know WHY my husband loves to give me oral? I do not not mind giving him oral without him giving to me , so why does he talk about it and want it all the time? I could live without the extended foreplay, I know some women like it but it is not my thing and receiving on the oral end is definately not my bag! He won't take NO for an answer, ladies please do not reply and tell me how lucky I am, I am asking other guys WHY?

[Clifton]

He probly loves you, and because of that wants to please you, because seeing you satisfied pleases him, but if you could do without it, maybe he needs some pointers!!

[Mother]

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Originally Posted by Clifton

He probly loves you, and because of that wants to please you, because seeing you satisfied pleases him, but if you could do without it, maybe he needs some pointers!!

I know he loves me and no doesn't need pointers. I just do not need foreplay and don't know how to tell him. I have tried, HE seems to need foreplay but I have never had that problem with a guy I want! Foreplay to me is a waste of time and energy! I thought most guys could skip it and be happy. Thanks for the input!

[Clifton]

yeah most of us could. but giving a female head isnt exactly foreplay, its enough by itself- my only thing i can really think of is, next time instead of sitting through it, all the while wanting him inside of you..just take the initiative, get up and pull him to you, or say something dirty to get him to **** you right there, the only thing i could think of him needing foreplay, is to get his dick hard- but if thats the case, that isnt very complicated, at least for me its not..but then again im still young anyway good luck!

[Nowoonder]

My g/f is the same about any kind of foreplay. I like to be as aroused as possible before finally getting into her, but for her not having my dick in her is a waste of time (at least when it comes to sex).

She made this very clear to me and keeps me from going down on her at all. You could do the same - just say NO.

[nikee-boy]

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[inkystink]

A woman who does not want oral sex is like a monkey that hates bananas. My girlfriend has gotten to the point of taking my head and forcing it between her legs until she is done with me. Are you okay? And when I do not do it, she sits on my head. Maybe it turns your guy on. I enjoy it, sometimes it's not for her but rather it's for my satisfaction. Normally, that just gets me hornier. So stop being selfish!

[Nowoonder]

Why do you call her selfish? Because she does not like a certain sexual technique?

[sfalexi]

I don't know why he likes to do it so much. It's not bothersome to me to do it. And I'm more than happy to do it for her. If she doesn't want it, I'm ok with that too.

Maybe it's just your husbands thing. I mean some poeple like certain things. Ranging from what I consider 'normal' to giving/getting oral, to what i consider 'bizarre' like wanting footjobs or S&M, to what I consider 'sick' like involving animals or self-mutilation.

If he enjoys it, and it's not painful or bothersome to you, just let him do it. If he seems to go on too long, just say something like, "I can't take it anymore. I need you inside me!" and get on to the real action. He'll feel like he satisfied you and got you to that point, and you've made him happy.

Rod Steele

[Mother]

I last one lick before F**K ME comes out! WAY TOO INTENSE! He doesn't seem to get that. I love to give but not receive in the oral catagory! Thanks I'll scream and bear it once in a while!

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Originally Posted by Clifton

yeah most of us could. but giving a female head isnt exactly foreplay, its enough by itself- my only thing i can really think of is, next time instead of sitting through it, all the while wanting him inside of you..just take the initiative, get up and pull him to you, or say something dirty to get him to **** you right there, the only thing i could think of him needing foreplay, is to get his dick hard- but if thats the case, that isnt very complicated, at least for me its not..but then again im still young anyway good luck!

[Mother]

I don't have any problem being wet and ready, I am fortunate enough to be multi- orgasmic! Sex literally makes me high! I love it! Just hate wasting time on something that sexually frustrates me! I want to be filled up, not teased!

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Originally Posted by inkystink

A woman who does not want oral sex is like a monkey that hates bananas. My girlfriend has gotten to the point of taking my head and forcing it between her legs until she is done with me. Are you okay? And when I do not do it, she sits on my head. Maybe it turns your guy on. I enjoy it, sometimes it's not for her but rather it's for my satisfaction. Normally, that just gets me hornier. So stop being selfish!

[Mother]

Thanks for sticking up for me!

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Originally Posted by Nowoonder

Why do you call her selfish? Because she does not like a certain sexual technique?

[Mother]

It is nice to know I'm not alone! I let him do it once in a while because I do not want him looking elsewhere, marriage is a balancing act. You are very considerate of your gal, she's lucky!

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Originally Posted by Nowoonder

My g/f is the same about any kind of foreplay. I like to be as aroused as possible before finally getting into her, but for her not having my dick in her is a waste of time (at least when it comes to sex).

She made this very clear to me and keeps me from going down on her at all. You could do the same - just say NO.

[Clifton]

Ya some people like the teasing (i am one) some dont..just personal preference, but i guess it can create minor conflicts when 2 of the opposites are together lol