I can't cum!!!! - Love Forum

shenmue · #1 (**permalink**) 14-06-04, 11:46 AM

sorry to be so blunt but I've never been able to cum when having sex with my gf. It just doesn't feel as good as masturbating somehow. She's given me oral and that feels much better than regular but when she's on top it feels like there's too much weight on me, we can't do it doggy style cause she's a lot shorter than me. Do I just need to calm down?
Anybody have a clue what the problem is or could be? I mean, I can get it up so I should be able to cum I think.

prosejunkie · #2 (**permalink**) 14-06-04, 01:34 PM

One of my college suitemates had a boyfriend who couldn't cum, it was a condition or something. Maybe you should ask your doctor.

Meanwhile, get some lube and teach her how to give you a nice handy.

sfalexi · #3 (**permalink**) 14-06-04, 03:11 PM

Stop masterbating. You're probably SO used to the 'handjob' feeling that it feels the best. If you stop masterbating, you'll find the sexual feeling (intercourse) more stimulating (since you won't have had any stimulation inbetween it).

Alexi

inkystink · #4 (**permalink**) 14-06-04, 07:41 PM

I second that.

Clifton · #5 (**permalink**) 14-06-04, 08:59 PM

Find her soem writing on controlling those muscles, that way she can tighten it up for you when you need to come

Killerbabe · #6 (**permalink**) 15-06-04, 02:54 AM

Just chill, man. Obviously, there's too much pressure on you. Maybe you feel the need to "perform" in front of your girlfriend and that's why you're so tense and can't ejaculate (still better than premature ejaculation!). I say you guys buy Kama-Sutra or any other book with illustrated love positions. I'm sure you guys can figure out a way to do doggy-style, though. Use a chair or something. In a word, use your imagination.

BillyGalbreath · #7 (**permalink**) 15-06-04, 02:58 AM

dude - I am 6'2" and Destine was 4'11" - we did doggie style just fine with no probs. So you cant use the excuse "She's too short". **** that. Flip her over and stick it in there !

MVPlaya · #8 (**permalink**) 15-06-04, 03:04 AM

Why would you want to **** a girl thats over a foot shorter? I'm 6'2", I don't touch anything under 5'5.

BillyGalbreath · #9 (**permalink**) 15-06-04, 03:05 AM

I have a thing for petite women. BIG TIME attraction goin on there.

Zekk_T_Strife · #10 (**permalink**) 15-06-04, 05:19 AM

Mmmm, gotta love a short one.

prosejunkie · #11 (**permalink**) 15-06-04, 05:57 AM

I'm 5' 1" and my ex is 6' 2", and we did it like that. . . as long as he was gentle (he was nicely endowed).

blue_moon2 · #12 (**permalink**) 21-06-04, 09:55 PM

i dont have any problem with guys being taller than girls they are with, but i think if the girls taller than the guy then thats real weird... it just doesnt seem 2 fit... if u know what i mean.