i can't cum and i definitly need some advice..please! - Love Forum

carl86 · #1 (**permalink**) 25-06-04, 04:51 AM

hey everyone

i'm 17 years old, and this is my story:
i had a girlfriend 3months ago and well once she masturbated me but over my pants and i was almost about to cum but she stopped...and i was too shy to tell her to continue coz it was my first time....now i have i girlfriend and she masturbated me once and the another day she gave me a blowjob but i didn't cum, i was definitly erected though.....she's the first person with whom i do intercourse, but i don't understand why i'm not cumming i don't feel tense at all and i'm not shy....it's very frustrating and i'm worried about myself.....
by the way i don't know if this information could help but after she masturbated me, i came home and finished the job myself ( it took me around 7minutes)....please give me advice i definitly need them , i feel really bad and i'm starting to get depressed....thank you

Exodus · #2 (**permalink**) 25-06-04, 06:57 AM

well if you can do it yourself it just sounds like you take a while. I know what you mean though, my gf can't get me off either. You might just try to let her know what things work for you and what can get you off. If you can do it yourself then theres nothing physically wrong with you.

Ironliftr3 · #3 (**permalink**) 25-06-04, 07:14 AM

Maybe you don't like chicks.

carl86 · #4 (**permalink**) 25-06-04, 07:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Ironliftr3

Maybe you don't like chicks.

i don't think so coz i'm in love with her

krayzie · #5 (**permalink**) 25-06-04, 09:34 AM

nah i dont think it has 2 do with his sexuality.....

maybe she wasnt pushing all ur "buttons" right... maybe next time when she does it.. put ur had over her n guide her how u like it

Nafnir · #6 (**permalink**) 25-06-04, 09:57 AM

Maybe you just take a little longer. In a way it could be blessing if thats true. I don't think theres anything wrong with you since you got yourself off at home so just wait a little longer next time.

SeeGirLdRiFT · #7 (**permalink**) 25-06-04, 09:58 AM

Have u seen american pie? well... u should just "practice for the big game." Watch some porn, look at some hustler.. U need to love yourself before u can receive love.

Nameless18 · #8 (**permalink**) 25-06-04, 11:13 AM

Well fer me im trying ta hold on as long as i can.. amazing how those porn stars manage ta hold on fer like 1 hr or so without cumming.. if ur nt cumming mayb its cos ur tinking too much while doin it.. juz let ur/gf hand and ur lil bro do e talking

KaWaiiSkYe · #9 (**permalink**) 25-06-04, 04:28 PM

Guide your girlfriend's hand next time.
Sometime I stop just before he cums. I know it's harsh. But it's fun to torture.

Clifton · #10 (**permalink**) 27-06-04, 03:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Ironliftr3

Maybe you don't like chicks.

HAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA OMG!!!!

KaWaiiSkYe · #11 (**permalink**) 27-06-04, 03:40 PM

Is it really that funny Clifton..?..

carl86 · #12 (**permalink**) 27-06-04, 07:16 PM

thank u all for the advice (and the laughing

) ....anyways, i found out that some of my friends are in the same case hehe.... it worked out for me afterall i've nothing to worry about anymore...peace