Why do men always want to rush to the sex rather than some good foreplay beforehand?? - Love Forum

britishchick · #1 (**permalink**) 30-06-04, 09:57 PM

Most guys i've dated always seem to want to go straight to sex all the time...rather than warming us girlies up first. Men dont realise that it takes longer for a woman to get all hot n bothered and up to the stage of orgasm than it does for a man...im sure im not the only one..whats everyone elses experieces and views?

BillyGalbreath · #2 (**permalink**) 30-06-04, 10:00 PM

because we only have enough blood to work 1 head at a time - and foreplay requires the head that contains the brain....

When we are in the mood the blood goes to the other head and that rules out foreplay...

Thats a good scientific way to look at it...

But the truth.. You want the truth... You cant handle the truth.. lol - j/k

We just want to get ours and then go back to the tv. simple.

BillyGalbreath · #3 (**permalink**) 30-06-04, 10:01 PM

idea! : Give your b/f X - if he's anything like me he will go for 10 hours before he finally passes out. Going for that long, there is no need for foreplay....

Innova · #4 (**permalink**) 30-06-04, 10:51 PM

I ****in love foreplay, it gives the mood that much more spice, and then when ya finally have real sex..its like an explosion of YEE-HAA!

Huendin · #5 (**permalink**) 01-07-04, 01:28 AM

lol because hardons hurt when you dont do anything about them

BillyGalbreath · #6 (**permalink**) 01-07-04, 02:04 AM

lol ! Huendin - thats brilliant ! I must use that excuse next time, lmfao !

Huendin · #7 (**permalink**) 01-07-04, 05:23 AM

lol knock yourself out

Killerbabe · #8 (**permalink**) 01-07-04, 06:22 AM

foreplay. is. over. rated.

PandaCivic · #9 (**permalink**) 01-07-04, 06:51 AM

depends on what kind of foreplay. making the girly want your yoo-hoo is the goal. foreplay gets you there. gotta get some poonawnee.

swimmingNreverie · #10 (**permalink**) 01-07-04, 09:27 PM

Guys don't need foreplay--doesn't take much to please them. But for women, foreplay is a necessity, and any guy that doesn't do it needs to be informed that its very important to the girl. Like britishchick said, it takes us a lot longer to get all "hot and bothered". i dunno, i figure if a guy cares about you, then he'll want to see you happy if you're making him happy, so he should suck it up and pleasure you as well
besides, sex would be better if both parties are extremely turned on

britishchick · #11 (**permalink**) 01-07-04, 10:09 PM

very well said mandawahoo!!!!

ellikitten · #12 (**permalink**) 03-07-04, 11:06 AM

You are so right, britishchick. Guys are definitely lacking in the foreplay department and it gets really frustrating. The thing they don't understand is that it will be much more fun for them if they put some more effort into it! Sometimes it seems that they're so happy to get the green light that they just take off like a bat out of hell and "get right to it". They either need to slow things down and make sure you're happy or be ready for round two as soon as they get that out of their system! I found that after they've cum once, they're more willing to pay a little more attention to getting you hot and bothered.

Nowoonder · #13 (**permalink**) 03-07-04, 07:17 PM

Come on, foreplay may be a necessity for some women, but definitely not for all. Just a couple of days back there was a thread about girl which was keen to skip foreplay but wouldn't know how to tell her guy. I also know two girls from my own experience (including my current g/f) who dislike foreplay. On the other hand, I cannot have enough foreplay - I like teasing and being teased for hours before getting my brains ****ed out.

ellikitten · #14 (**permalink**) 04-07-04, 09:35 AM

I guess it may be more of a personal preference rather than a girl/guy thing...

Innova · #15 (**permalink**) 04-07-04, 09:41 AM

I love foreplay, and with my ex it just made us all hot and heavy, and want it that much more. By the time we was done, we damn near tore the house down ROFL.