im ready for sex, now what?

[jenna]

My boyfriend and I have been going out for like 8 months now... We've talked about sex, he wanted to, I didn't, so he waited patiently and didn't pressure me at all!

But now, I'm ready. I want to have sex... What do you all think would be the best approach? Just one day surprising him and saying 'lets have sex now' or just one day say "now i'm ready, we just have to find the right time and place"

anyways, im just curious on how you all went about it. and we're 16 years old, both virgins.

[mr fark]

Guys are usually 24 hr horny

so whenever u have the urge, just start by kissing him, if he starts to kiss back and fondle, then you know the time's right

[sportydoll]

Curiosity kills the cat. I hope this isn't a act of rash or something... masturbation might help

[gayle]

Do what I did the first time I tried to have sex. Before, get a physical and birth control, just to be on the safe side, and get some condoms. Then while you guys are making out, in the sexiest voice you can, tell him how bad you want it. As for first time I tried to have sex part, it hurt really bad, and i couldn't go through with it. be prepared, it might be painful.