Porn

[luvtif]

How much porn is normal for a 23 year old guy to have on his comp? My bf, who can get sex ANYTIME he wants, has prob 30-40 porn videos on his comp. It bothers me that he has so much. Does he watch all of them? He says its normal for guys, but i wanted another opinion. Thanks.

[britishchick]

Im so glad im not the only one. My husbands 33 and has shit loads of porn on his pc..he's constantly downloading videos and pictures all the time. He must have over 300 videos and about 1000 pics of all the skanks like jenna jamison, jordan, aria giovanni. Im 24 and he can have sex anytime he wants yet everytime i come in the pc room he's either watching porn or surfing porn. It really bothers me too..kinda makes me feel unloved and not good enough for him.. It doesnt bother me if im not there and hes watching porn but when im right there and he'd rather watch and surf porn than pay me attention it makes me really sad. So don't worry ..ur not the only one. I think men can be very selfish at times and don't have any consideration whatsoever....its normal for guys to like porn...every man does but when ur settled down and with the one u love...its time they grew up and stopped acting like a porn obsessed 18 yr old! If u ever want to chat about it provately luvtif then lemme know and i'll give u my email adress!

[Uncertain]

I never had any porn saved on my computer and I stop watching porn whenever I'm in a relationship. Unless we watch it in couple.

Porn is mostly a substitute for sex that guys use to masturbate because they lack imagination or don't like to use it.

In my opinion, it's not normal for a man to have so much porn on his computer while he's in a couple. Especially if it's something he does in secret or when he's alone.

[blue]

i love to watch porn alone or when im in a realtionship. but if my guy was hiding it from me i would be pissed. my recent ex b/f wasnt really into it at all and thats ok too.

[Illusional]

it's like free food, you can never have enough. raverboy

[luvtif]

yeah, its just hard to understand when he would need to look at that to masterbate when he can have sex whenever. would he rather watch the "hot girls" have sex than have sex with me( i mean we have sex and he likes it, but you know what i mean). which brings me to another quesiton-why do guys still masterbate when they can have sex? Whats the point?

[Illusional]

it's like...why have only one flavor of icecream when you have a choice. genetically males want to spread their genes to ensure that their genes will live forever in the future. this is the theory of reproduction. naturally guys, hopefully, won't cheat on their women but their eyes can't help but to wander. true, everyone does get bored with their sex life, which is why people need to constantly change things up, it's to keep their partner interested. maybe the sex within your relationship has become repeatative, so try something new, like toys or porn. raverboy

[luvtif]

i mean i don't know how often he looks at this stuff. and i can pretty much guarantee he's not bored with our sex-i do change things up. he's not a little hornball. I guess guys just operate different than us girls cause i can't understand it. i guess guys just like to look at tits and ass no matter how much they like yours-even though thats hard for me to understand-i analyze everything-, but from what i hear, i guess thats just how it is.

[meremale]

Its different from guy to guy. Some will never have enough while others just won't be interested in porn if they have a willing partner. I personally have no porn saved on my PC, but I do surf porn on the net now and again (mainly because I don't have that special person).

[LucidDream]

Im surprised the guy doesnt get bored to be honest!

[luvtif]

maybe he does then, i guess. our sex is good, but is it inevitable that he will get bored? that sux-that's why i don't understand how guys can say they only want to be with one girl forever-are they bound to cheat on you then?

[LucidDream]

No, I mean bored of the hours and hours of porn. not you

[Illusional]

not all guys are cheaters. raverboy

[nomas]

I always thought that if I had a special someone, I'd loose interest in porn.

Did anyone ever feel this way, then get into a relationship and still like the porn?

I don't know because I've never been in a relationship. But I bet, though he has tons of porn saved on his computer, he doesn't watch it constantly, right? I know I save stuff from time to time, but that doesn't mean I go back and see it frequently. Sometimes I never see them again. I'm cleaning out files and find some porn I saved way back and never saw again.

Freddie

[PandaCivic]

in one of my past relationships, i had porn, but not the kind that makes you prefer masturbation over the poonanee. it's the kind with beautiful women just being naked and a penis in the movie, pretending it's mine. you know stuff like that. and usually when your girl is not around, what are you gonna do? **** a couch? i don't think so, you gotta rub one out and then call her and tell her so she can come over after work. something like that...