i've been going out with my girl for a while now, 3 months or so.
all we've really done is make out heavily.. nothing beyond second base.
but the other day i was totally alone with her for the first time and we started getting really into it. i could have probably taken it further if i wanted but chose not to
even when we were making out i only touched her arms, neck, face, back
didnt go for legs, ass, breasts..
she did move on top of me though
reasons?
- she has never had sex with a guy before, in fact she hasnt even gone beyond making out.
- she is a christian, she doesnt believe in sex before marraige (dont know where she stands on anything else) however recently she has been doubting her faith and doesnt know where she stands on it
on the phone tonight she was wondering if maybe she is undesireable, if i dont see her in a sexual way - I DO! i just dont want to go and do something and wreck everything.
we both admitted on reflection that we thought about taking things further... but seriously, next time i'm alone with her i have to make it count... i need to make her see that she is sexual to me and desireable and plus i quite want to
so any specific techniques of where to start off at? (body wise), how to kiss her to get her really turned on? where to touch her?
i remember the friends episode where chandler gets instruction from rachael and monica about where to go on a woman's body to really drive her wild.. i'm looking for similar advice
also anything i could say to let her know at the time i really want her?
i think she is tempted to go way more sexual with me if i go for it.