my member feels numb - Love Forum

tommyt · #1 (**permalink**) 15-10-04, 10:34 AM

I used to masterbate nightly and was always getting boners during the day and could hold them for awhile, however I broke up with my gf a few months ago of several years and now I'm dating a new girl. I still get really horny and turned on by her, but I can't get an erection easily and have it last. I don't really feel nervous or anything, I dunno, lately I feel kinda numb down there in a sexual sense. I mean this is like a guys ultimate nightmare, I got a great girl, foxy as hell and I can't get my member up. It never used to be this way, I am totaly stressing about it which prolly makes it worse, but it's like my libido is gone even though I am so attracted to my gf and I want sex with her too. Anyone understand?

abercromqt20 · #2 (**permalink**) 15-10-04, 11:45 AM

i think you may just be over thinking it too much now. could it be that you started seeing this new girl too quickly after you and you ex broke it off and you never took the time to get over ur ex. if that's the case i would say you should slow it down and take a bit of a break from the new girl. this way you get it all figured out in your head and you will come back to her in the right mind set. just be open and honest with her and it should all work out. just stop over thinking everything though. that is the biggest key!

gsgann22 · #3 (**permalink**) 15-10-04, 09:27 PM

i agre you are thinking about it to much and stop masturbating all together if you haven't plus these things tend to go in cycles and you should see results soon.

RussianKid · #4 (**permalink**) 22-10-04, 02:27 AM

i masturbate sometimes before i used to go c my x, i lasted alot longer and she loved it. for me masturbation helps sex

mikef · #5 (**permalink**) 22-11-04, 10:55 PM

Maybe you need more sexual arousal to keep your erection hard. Try to think about something that excites you very much. If it also won't help try pills that enhance sexual desire. I recommend ZuPro. After taking it I always have rock hard erections and intense sexual drive.

Laguna · #6 (**permalink**) 23-11-04, 04:56 AM

Yea, if I masterbaute before sex, I can go long as hell. Usually if I masterbaute right before sex, the girl has an orgasim before me

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kanzaki · #7 (**permalink**) 23-11-04, 04:10 PM

try viagra

BigTen#95 · #8 (**permalink**) 23-11-04, 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by kanzaki

try viagra

Before you go off and do that, how old are ya? If your under 21, I wouldn't take Viagra

kanzaki · #9 (**permalink**) 24-11-04, 12:15 AM

well, here goes

no 1) i am only 16. I am considered very young to know anythng bout sex but aparently illusional think otherwise.

no 2) no matter i want to take viagra or not, i cannot get it in my place. Damn!

no 3) if it gave me some ability to get my bf to eject some sperm, or at least making me up so high that i can suck his dick properly. I would risk it!

and wat are the side effects?

kanzaki · #10 (**permalink**) 24-11-04, 12:17 AM

and btw big ten, I am not taking it. I doubt i need it is my man is acting up to my actions.

Even when he is drop sick today.

3 ejections!!! myahahahahaha!!!

i repeat, i am suggesting it, i am not saying i am taking it.