girls, does size matter???? - Love Forum

purge_searches · #1 (**permalink**) 29-10-04, 10:05 PM

this might sound weird asking, but here it goes...
i dont think i am small, however i know most of my mates are bigger..i know this not from perving at them because i am very straight. it may be because of the different angle im looking at it from...but my question is, what is the average size of a penis, and girls, does size really matter? like, if a girls last experience was with a guy quite hung, will she be dissapointed when her next experience is not as big? u see, the prob with me (well i dont know if it is a problem, but i wanna know if it is), when its cold, it is very small, but when errected, its quite large...
replies from anyone will be appreciated
cheers

blue · #2 (**permalink**) 30-10-04, 12:17 AM

me personally my preferance i like 7 inches or bigger and thick i dont care if its curved staright or what not....now a small one is ok as long as its not 4 or less that i ant deal with....bu they do say oits how its used but i like my prefrences better

Illusional · #3 (**permalink**) 30-10-04, 05:08 AM

size always matters.. if you aren't atleast 10 inches long, girls won't care about your penis.

raverboy

sfalexi · #4 (**permalink**) 30-10-04, 05:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Illusional

size always matters.. if you aren't atleast 10 inches long, girls won't care about your penis.

raverboy

I think you need to add a couple zeros to that conservative figure . . .

Illusional · #5 (**permalink**) 30-10-04, 06:01 AM

alright if you insist...

size always matters.. if you aren't atleast 1000 inches long, girls won't care about your penis.

raverboy

manonfire · #6 (**permalink**) 30-10-04, 06:51 AM

damn im only 975 inches long.

hbalagh · #7 (**permalink**) 30-10-04, 06:51 AM

I have been with men who are both large and smaller and i truely believe that size doesn't really matter if you know how to work it together. And i mean both the man and woman have to work together... i have been with men who are large and don't know what they are doing and the sex sucks.... then ive been with guys who are smaller and its been great sexx

abercromqt20 · #8 (**permalink**) 30-10-04, 08:43 AM

me too! i have been with some huge guys that just have no clue what they were doing with it and the sex was lame. i have had my share of experiences and have come to the conclusion that its more about whether the man knows what he is doing with it over the size. BUT i do think there is such a thing as too small though. and if the guy is like ridiculously small then forget it. i mean you have to be able to feel something right?!? jk

Draven · #9 (**permalink**) 30-10-04, 08:45 AM

Well me i'm 7 and a half inches, and i'm with a girl who's not fat and pretty skinny.. but it hurts her alot, so i guess size does matter in a way, but if you're too big it'll hurt, and too small it won't feel like anything, i suggest if ur under 5 inches, put a finger in her hole at the same time ^.^

hbalagh · #10 (**permalink**) 30-10-04, 10:30 AM

Also If you know what your doing with it you will be able to stimulate her cliterous with your tool so size wouldn't matter

June · #11 (**permalink**) 30-10-04, 09:40 PM

Well, I do agree with the ost of you girls, I had differnt ones too, ig and small ones. its not the size its more for me HOW LONG he will stay big and what he will do with his Joystick inside me. Big isn´t nessesarrarly more fun.
I think guys with big ones ofthen are so selfconfident that on the end they are poor lovers. Not allways but happend in my experience.
A guy who has a funny caracter and is relaxed and is sensible and tender will give you all you need with what ever his size will be.
Love June

nomas · #12 (**permalink**) 02-11-04, 12:51 AM

Question: What do you mean by "how he uses it" or "knows how to work it", I mean, what EXACTLY constitutes good "skills"?? I would assume it would be different for each girl, but is there any common denominators? Is it moving around alot? Lot's of in-and-out, round-and-round, a good rhythm..a combination of a lot of these things? Honestly, the only sex I've seen are pornos, but for the most part that's just a lot of in and out motion that seems repetitive to me...and I know the girls always fake-scream being pleasured, but is this the kind of things girls like in real-life sex?

Freddie

Darkace · #13 (**permalink**) 02-11-04, 03:46 AM

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Originally Posted by nomas

Question: What do you mean by "how he uses it" or "knows how to work it", I mean, what EXACTLY constitutes good "skills"?? I would assume it would be different for each girl, but is there any common denominators? Is it moving around alot? Lot's of in-and-out, round-and-round, a good rhythm..a combination of a lot of these things? Honestly, the only sex I've seen are pornos, but for the most part that's just a lot of in and out motion that seems repetitive to me...and I know the girls always fake-scream being pleasured, but is this the kind of things girls like in real-life sex?

Freddie

in addition to what he said whats your most favourite position and does it matter im assuming it does tell me if im wrong

hurtn · #14 (**permalink**) 02-11-04, 04:37 AM

This is an individual thing imo. Although i wouldnt know cos i aint teh girl.
So can a girl answer me this, how would a guy know if his is long and large enough for her. I mean there is a limit as to how far it can go in right...i hit the wall most times and it feels like i'm hitting a balloon ... would that be deep enough and is mine big and long enough for her????

kronos51 · #15 (**permalink**) 02-11-04, 05:53 AM

I am a guy, but my gf is very open about what she likes. To answer the question of "knowing how to use it" its simple, pay attention to her and do what is needed to please her, even if it doesnt feel that great for you.

A small lesson: you have all heard of the g-spot i assume? Good. If you don't know, it is located on the top side (towards her stomach) of the vagina about an inch and a half in, if you hit that she will definitely like it. This means getting an angle so that you can rub against that side of the vagina easily. There is also, of course, the clitoris, which I can easily tell feels infinitely good when rubbed at the same time. Also, try to vary it up, penetrating deep can feel good, but sometimes it gets old and she wants to change positions up or whatnot.

I would suggest the classic doggy style for pleasuring her, you dont have to be laying on top of her (which could detract for her) and you also have an angle to hit the g-spot and can easily stimulate her clitoris too.

Overall, when you have a partner dont be afraid to ask her what she wants and what feels good. (usually i can tell from the screams and moans, those are a good sign

) Also, you can usually tell a real orgasm from a fake by the spasming of the vagina (though it sometimes cant be felt or she may not tighten much when orgasming, every girl is different).