Anal sex - Love Forum

aussie · #1 (**permalink**) 02-11-04, 12:28 PM

Have any females tried anal and found that it hurt but now have found away to make it enjoyable without the pain? Or have any guys done this with a female partner and found a way pain free?

BigTen#95 · #2 (**permalink**) 02-11-04, 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by aussie

Have any females tried anal and found that it hurt but now have found away to make it enjoyable without the pain? Or have any guys done this with a female partner and found a way pain free?

I have never been able to talk a girl into letting me have anal sex with them

But my buds have and say, its all about lubbing and lossening

Bigten

aussie · #3 (**permalink**) 02-11-04, 03:32 PM

never talked to a chick about it shit!!! I make sure i know the first time im about to have sex with a female

#4 (**permalink**) 02-11-04, 05:34 PM

I guess it only works if both really want it and you use lots of lube.

blue · #5 (**permalink**) 02-11-04, 10:09 PM

in my experience at first it does hurt and i think that entry is usually the worst part, after that i find it totally enjoyable the orgasm is really good!

abercromqt20 · #6 (**permalink**) 02-11-04, 10:42 PM

for me it's always alot easier if i've had a few drinks.

XxTheDarkGiftxX · #7 (**permalink**) 10-11-04, 08:59 AM

My girl friend and I tried anal sex once and it lasted about a second and ended up as an extremely comical event, certainly worth it. In our case, we didn't go about it properly and rushed it which is why it didn't work out the way we planned it to. Oh well, we will try again eventually i'm sure

PoetsRevenge84 · #8 (**permalink**) 10-11-04, 09:01 AM

I tried it with my boyfriend (who just posted ahead of me). It hurt like hell so we stopped. Haven't tried it again since. But then again, that was only a couple of weeks ago. We needed more lube. Oi! lol It was very funny though. As he said, WELL worth it. I haven't laughed that hard in a while. lol

anais · #9 (**permalink**) 10-11-04, 02:19 PM

I didn't feel any pain. With a good lubrication why should you? But my feelings were far from orgasmic, too

. Did it just to please my bf.

blue · #10 (**permalink**) 11-11-04, 12:37 AM

wow i have great orgasms during anal! oh especially when my clit is being stimulated

abercromqt20 · #11 (**permalink**) 11-11-04, 10:48 AM

i tried anal one time with my ex and it was horrible. it hurt so much, he could barely get it in at all. he was a jerk about it and made me cry. now recently i did it with my new bf and it was easy as hell. i mean i like actually wanted it. i mean i was drunk the first time but i think it helped. it's all about being relaxed. and it helps if you have gotten off a time or 2 b4 he tries to put it in ur ass. i don't think there is a way to make it "painfree" at first. just ease ur way up to it. having him use his fingers on u first. and use lots of lube. whether it be actual lube or spit, make sure you use something.

Frebbiezadyke · #12 (**permalink**) 11-11-04, 12:06 PM

i personlay liek it dry and hard and i get mybest prgasims analy but firs the first coup of times i dotn care whwo mcuh the girl might liek pain u need to lube the hell up

abercromqt20 · #13 (**permalink**) 12-11-04, 01:12 AM

Frebbie is 100% right on! I can't imagine taking it dry the first few times! *Cringes* i'm hurting just thinking about it!

nomas · #14 (**permalink**) 12-11-04, 01:54 AM

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Originally Posted by abercromqt20

Frebbie is 100% right on! I can't imagine taking it dry the first few times! *Cringes* i'm hurting just thinking about it!

100%?? Is this a made up statistic??

Freddie

abercromqt20 · #15 (**permalink**) 12-11-04, 10:27 AM

man, freddie....stop riding my ass!

j/k!

and no i didn't make up that stat. i was just saying personally i 100% agree with frebbie! is that so wrong???