2 questions... going down, and sex - Love Forum

Exodus · #1 (**permalink**) 23-12-04, 02:17 AM

ok, so when you go down on a girl what are some techniques to use because the only one i really know is to go after the clit like mad. I'm sure there are other techniques though, so enlighten me

And my second question. I've been having sex with this girl for about 3 weeks now and usually after going for about half an hour it starts to dry up and it gets really hard to go anymore for me anyways. Is that normal?

Steve2004 · #2 (**permalink**) 23-12-04, 02:39 AM

what exactly is "drying up"?..that could be a number of different things.

OpticalIllusion · #3 (**permalink**) 23-12-04, 02:49 AM

I think he might mean his member starts to dry up.

IKnowEverything · #4 (**permalink**) 23-12-04, 03:41 AM

He's obviously talking about the girl.

As far as pleasing her orally? Hmm....
**** it.

I usually just throw her a vibrator while I leave the room to go play Madden.

Good luck!

Clifton · #5 (**permalink**) 23-12-04, 06:34 AM

#1 if she dries up that quick: buy some lube

#2 one thing i do is move my head instead of my tongue..that way i can keep my tongue relaxed so that it hits every area of her clit..thats somethin that worked really well with my exfiance..the last girl i did that for.

tooxshort · #6 (**permalink**) 23-12-04, 11:51 AM

#1: Different strokes for different folks ... never hurts to ask the girl what she wants ...

#2: I dunno what to say ... unless she's not having a very good time ... i wouldn't know why she would dry up, but that's my guess ... switch it up ...

Clifton · #7 (**permalink**) 23-12-04, 05:30 PM

it could be one of many things, if shes on DEPO- could be that, but most girls ive been with can always hang, unless im using a condom, that seems to dry alot of girls up..but then again, i rarely use condoms so its not much of a problem

abercromqt20 · #8 (**permalink**) 24-12-04, 01:18 AM

very true..... i know alot of girls, myself sometimes included, that dry up when their man wears a condom. it may not be you, just a natural reaction. Clifton's right..... buy some lube and you're good to go!

Exodus · #9 (**permalink**) 24-12-04, 08:36 AM

Yeah, i think it is because of the condom... i always wear one so maybe i'll have to talk to her about it sometime and get some lube... is lube safe to use on condoms though?

oh ya, and one more thing. I don't think its because she isn't liking it... because i can tell she starts to tighten up when it gets dry. Or maybe its just because it's not as easy for me to move when it gets drier. I dunno.

Spanaway55 · #10 (**permalink**) 24-12-04, 10:47 AM

u can use lubricated condoms right? or is that what u use? that might be enough. but if not, lube is a good bet, KY warming lubricant, thats all i have to say!

Carlos_Casas · #11 (**permalink**) 25-12-04, 05:01 AM

1.i lick around the hole n just finger while I lick!!

2. yeah, I thank... Dat never happened to me before!

Cybog · #12 (**permalink**) 30-12-04, 05:53 PM

Quote:

He's obviously talking about the girl.

As far as pleasing her orally? Hmm....
**** it.

I usually just throw her a vibrator while I leave the room to go play Madden.

Good luck!

Wow. We got us an everyday Don Juan here. I'll bet Miss 3.42 is REAL happy!

It amazes me the number of people around here who post "tips" and have absolutely no idea what they are talking about.

If you don't ****ing know, then don't say anything.

#1. Every girl is different. Some will be as wet as a gyser for 24 hours straight, and others as dry as Stalin by the 2nd inning. It's not "your tehnique" that makes her wet, and no matter how much of a stud you think you are, her wetness is based on 2 things and 2 things alone - Her body chemistry, and how turned on she is.

#2. Buy a waterbased lube, or use lube condoms. KY is ****ing nasty, and the only time you want to use that shit on a girls snatch is....never. Get some of the good stuff like I.D. Glide from your local porn shop. It comes in sizes ranging from small tubes to buckets, is odorless, tasteless, and lasts a longass time. Save the KY for when you are banging her in the ass.

Don't use stuff like KY or Baby Oil with condoms and expect them to work. That stuff can eat through a condom, lowering it's effeciency. They have some KY out there that is supposed to be safe, but think about it this way - Do you want to stick your dick in something more natural, or feel like you are ****ing a jar of Vasoline....? You decide.

#3. As far as technique for oral goes - just like wetness, every girl is different. Anytime you are licking a girls cooch, take it real slow, go up and down, left to right, all around....etc. Any girl that you are going down on should be telling you what she likes.

The way I look at it, if Im going to be down there licking your pussy, I had better feel comfortable enough to hear how you like it. Im not going to sit down there for 20 minutes rubbing my toungue against you like a piece of sand paper and not have you tell me how you like it. It's a waste of your time and hers.

Any decent girl out there (that you didn't have to pay by the hour for) will be glad to tell you how they like it. If they don't want to tell you, then chances are they are "Orally scared", which is another topic for another time.

some1there · #13 (**permalink**) 30-12-04, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Exodus

ok, so when you go down on a girl what are some techniques to use because the only one i really know is to go after the clit like mad. I'm sure there are other techniques though, so enlighten me

And my second question. I've been having sex with this girl for about 3 weeks now and usually after going for about half an hour it starts to dry up and it gets really hard to go anymore for me anyways. Is that normal?

1) There is no magic formula for sex... x followed by y followed by z = good sex Don't entirely concentration on her clit, the rest of labia has pretty good sensation too! You might licking up her labia without parting it...then slowly parting it with long lucious strokes of your tongue flattened. Try using your tongue to tease her clit...also using it in different ways (hard flicking to soft delicate touching). You should know if she likes it from the reaction from her body; increased breathing, pushing up at you. Also you should have an idea if you do something she doesn't like! Women will generally come faster during oral with something inside them, so gently insert your finger...even if you just keep it still. You'll also know how close she is to coming from tensing of her vaginal muscles that way...

2) Drying up? Ever thought that you're not maintaining her excitement? Try varying what you're doing...Get your hand down there as your having sex and touch her clit...Try spitting her on pussy?

LOL

Exodus · #14 (**permalink**) 31-12-04, 12:01 PM

i think the reason she's getting dry is because she can't go as long before getting dry. unless she's just faking it... last time we were having sex and she got dry i had to stop because it bunched up the condom but she said she got off twice. and one time i was going and the condom did break because it was too dry and the condom got pulled back and all the pressure was pulling the head too tight and then it broke. luckily it wasn't while i was cuming or anything. We bought some of that ID lube tonight from the sex shop, actually b4 i read this heh. so i'll see how that goes this weekend. We rented a condo for the weekend for new years and we plan on having much fun

just the two of us.

grace · #15 (**permalink**) 03-01-05, 04:28 AM

myabe u need to plasuer her more, some girls need slitouris stimulation during sex aswell, just to keep the juicese flowing. ask her what she likes or feels is wrong and im sure youll get somewhere, communication is always a winner!"