Is it wrong??...... - Page 2 - Love Forum

Frebbiezadyke · #16 (**permalink**) 24-11-04, 07:12 AM

not at all silly willy its perfectly fine to have sex with no emotions atached and only for sexual pleasrue however u may want to make sure she feels the same way or that she at least knows ur using her

misombra · #17 (**permalink**) 25-11-04, 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Clifton

That generalizations bullshit, i know some girls who are sexual predators, and have you begging for more, but to them it was just some dick. and to squirlly:
Sex is always special if you make it so, wether or not its with someone you love is irrelevant (for me) Its a way of connecting with someone, mentally and physically..if there is no love there- the atmosphere you create can still leave the expirience special.

i guess that's true. i know some guys who get attached after sex too. and to be perfectly honest, i had repeated sex with a guy that i didn't really care for. i just did it cause i was bored i guess. so in that case, yeah, go ahead it's all good!

joe schmoe · #18 (**permalink**) 25-11-04, 08:33 PM

Yeah, she's one of those sexual predators mentioned above, i told her I didn't want to carry on as I thought she would get feelings for me (oh that makes me sound big-headed), she just laughed and said 'alright mate, whatever, i just think you're a good **** but if you can't handle it then fine!!', think its cuz i crave more than just no strings sex (don't get me wrong, no-strings is a whole load of fun) but i think i'm getting older (i'm 26) and I should really be looking for a relationship. Thanx for your feedback people

ivyhk · #19 (**permalink**) 25-11-04, 11:49 PM

what is no string sex?

joe schmoe · #20 (**permalink**) 01-12-04, 09:44 PM

@ivy - no strings is sex without the demands of a relationship

the girl in question flipped out at me yesterday screaming a horrible torrent of abuse at me, basically telling me that if i can't be in a relationship with her then i should go take a long walk from a short pier. Back to the drawing board then, no late night booty calls anymore...

turbomx3 · #21 (**permalink**) 01-12-04, 10:47 PM

If she's cool and your cool then cool (If it was my ex i'd be soooooooooooo madddd! grrrrr!). But anyone else go for it.

seriously I think sex is special and should be done with a special person someone you do feel at least close too be it a friend or an ex boyfriend who was a bestfriend. Better than choking the monkey!

Clifton · #22 (**permalink**) 01-12-04, 10:47 PM

lol i had a girl like that for a while, we were like girlfriend/boyfriend but really all we did was have sex..and i had to cut that loose after a while..even though i had made it clear i wasnt available emotionally she still chose to start telling me she loves me, that was about that.

misombra · #23 (**permalink**) 02-12-04, 02:54 AM

i think women would like to think that we can have sex like men do and just get up, leave, and not really care. it's such an advantage and some women would really love to pass. so i think a lot of women will try and then get attached and then feel like a big fool when the guy isn't attached to her. all with the exception of those outliers, men who get attached and women who don't, who i believe are rare.

DownWithLove · #24 (**permalink**) 06-12-04, 12:51 AM

Yeah, and what could happen if they find out about each other??? Then no sex and no love. Hmmm.
You might want to try deciding what you want and just go for that before you lose your options. I know when I had 'just sex' relationships I still didn't want to know about other women. Also, if a guy really wants to date a girl then he should give up sleeping with others.

Clifton · #25 (**permalink**) 06-12-04, 02:43 AM

i think this was about single people (my comments were, as i dont sleep around when 'seeing' someone) but, if i make it clear to a girl, that im single, that i dont love her and never will, that im just having fun with her..and she realizes that if i see a pretty girl im going to go get her #, because shes not my girlfriend, shes a ****buddy. then its ok, but for some reason, any girl i DONT want to get attached to me does, and the ones i do, it just doesnt end up right. But thats why ive decided to be single and see lots of girls instead of investing time and emotions into someone, knowing at my age no girl will be ready to settle down. I think its odd, girls sometimes think thats what they want, to settle down, but i know for sure that it doesnt last for long, because you guys are crazy and have no idea what you want or need from a man.

joe schmoe · #26 (**permalink**) 06-12-04, 05:29 PM

I've had three long term relationships (one 5 year and two 2 years long) and I've always been dedicated and 100%faithful to my partner of the time, i'm currently enjoying being single for the longest period of my adult life and have been having lots of fun, unfortunately as i wrote above the girl in question can't take it anymore and she won't speak to me anymore so as a word of advice don't make **** buddys from girls whos friendship u wish to keep........