g spot! your opinion? - Love Forum

jillibean · #1 (**permalink**) 29-08-08, 05:07 AM

ok, i have fairly good sex drive, and have had relationship with a very satisfying sex life lasted 12 years, but i have never been lucky enough to have a vaginal orgasm, only from clitoral stimulation in some form. he knew where all my fuzzy spots were, but never hit the G!
anyway have many of you girls or girlfriends had a g spot orgasm or do you think every woman can.
so guys or ladies any feedback on experiences or tips on finding it would be interesting?!!!
thanks

shh! · #2 (**permalink**) 29-08-08, 05:15 AM

Although some women swear by them, the existence of the G spot has not been scientifically confirmed, and most women (like 70%) require clitoral stimulation for an orgasm. If your partner is giving you an orgasm of any kind, just be appreciative. Lots of women can't have one at all.

jillibean · #3 (**permalink**) 29-08-08, 05:22 AM

oh dont get me wrong i really enjoy sex and im very greatful that i can climax at all. i guess im just curious as i have often felt different sensations which leads to thinking i guess. thanks for your post shh

DoesntMatter · #4 (**permalink**) 29-08-08, 05:49 AM

Why don't you try finding your g-spot yourself with a dildo? If you can't find it then there is no way in hell he will be able to

Common sense?

Gribble · #5 (**permalink**) 29-08-08, 06:06 AM

What DM said. Go read up on it somewhere and see if you can find the damn thing.

lesa · #6 (**permalink**) 29-08-08, 06:16 AM

I believe there is tissue that gives sexual enjoyment but I know that not all women have them (or feel them) so that is probably why the existence of one is debatable. It's up to the woman to say whether she finds something enjoyable and not all women feel that. Maybe it's an internal extension of the clitoris but not all women clitoris extend far enough for them to feel it inside. It could also be a similar structure to the male prostate such as the paraurethral glands that explains the ‘squirting’ some women say they experience. If you tried finding something anteriorly that feels ‘good’ to touch then you may call that the G spot, if you cannot then you probably don’t have one (or feel one).

Dasein · #7 (**permalink**) 29-08-08, 08:09 AM

Ok I am going to put it out there. I am with jillibean. I enjoy sex but NEVER have had a vaginal orgasm.

At one stage in my life I worked in a female dominated work place and this topic came up one day and most of the girls confessed that they too have never had an orgasm purely through penetration.

I personally think (for me) that the G spot is a load of sh*t. There may be something there but it doesn't do anything for me... and YES I have tried..many MANY times.

Gribble · #8 (**permalink**) 29-08-08, 09:33 AM

I read somewhere that penetration without clitoral stimulation is about as likely to get a woman off as testicle stimulation for us guys. Most of the time women will sooner orgasm from their clitorises rubbing against the guy's pelvis.

I've always wondered how true that was.

Cain · #9 (**permalink**) 29-08-08, 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Gribble

I read somewhere that penetration without clitoral stimulation is about as likely to get a woman off as testicle stimulation for us guys. Most of the time women will sooner orgasm from their clitorises rubbing against the guy's pelvis.

I've always wondered how true that was.

I think the rubbing of the pelvis on the clitoris might actually be correct. When my ex and I had sex, she hardly ever had clitoral stimulation and she always had an orgasm, but she always had the orgasm while I was laying on top of her pumping away with a purpose. She never had an orgasm in any other position, but I don't know if it was because she couldn't since we always finished in the same position.

lesa · #10 (**permalink**) 29-08-08, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Cain

I think the rubbing of the pelvis on the clitoris might actually be correct. When my ex and I had sex, she hardly ever had clitoral stimulation and she always had an orgasm, but she always had the orgasm while I was laying on top of her pumping away with a purpose. She never had an orgasm in any other position, but I don't know if it was because she couldn't since we always finished in the same position.

That's clitoral stimuation.

Cain · #11 (**permalink**) 29-08-08, 10:18 AM

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That's clitoral stimuation.

I'm saying we didn't directly use clitoral stimulation. I was just telling Gribble that his thought of the pelvis rubbing against the clitoris is correct.

lesa · #12 (**permalink**) 29-08-08, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Gribble

I read somewhere that penetration without clitoral stimulation is about as likely to get a woman off as testicle stimulation for us guys. Most of the time women will sooner orgasm from their clitorises rubbing against the guy's pelvis.

I've always wondered how true that was.

That's true.

1averagejoe · #13 (**permalink**) 29-08-08, 10:35 AM

I say we have an experiment and prove this myth right or wrong once and for all...ladies I need test subjects, any takers?

Dasein · #14 (**permalink**) 29-08-08, 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Cain

I'm saying we didn't directly use clitoral stimulation. I was just telling Gribble that his thought of the pelvis rubbing against the clitoris is correct.

Quite a different concept from the porn movies where the male can insert into any orifice alone and the woman will be screaming with delight.

lesa · #15 (**permalink**) 29-08-08, 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Dasein

Quite a different concept from the porn movies where the male can insert into any orifice alone and the woman will be screaming with delight.

Yep, us women are such good fakers (is that a word?).