will i get pregnent?

[kanzaki]

well, apparently we had some alchohol and we forgot the safety measures. Yes, i ment the condom

anyway, we were humping and he said that he felt some liquid ejected from his penis at the beginning end of my hole.

The thing is, i dont know wheater we girls will feel anything when liquid or fluid enters through our hymen. or the matter of fact, into my uretus. usually we use condom. So even he climax, i dun feel any liquid inside me.

on that time, i felt that no fluid around or inside my hole.

my period is only coming that the end of this month. Meaning this time of the week is the best fertilizing time/zon.

so...am i pregnent?

btw, i have some questions.

1) will the pregnency pill help AFTER the intercourse?

2) um, does the pregnency test work/find out that i am pregnent after only one week?

3) any way to abort if i am pregnent? other than going surgery

help... TT____TT i promise to never do it again

[III Angie III]

There's no way any of us can tell you if you're pregnant or not. I would suggest that you consult your local physician. In addition, since it appears that you're sexually active, you might want to talk to your parent(s).
You had sexual intercourse therefore, there's a chance that you might be however, with that being said, just because you had sexual intercourse does not mean you're pregnant.
Either way, the last thing you should be doing is taking any form of medication. Not only are you putting your own health at risk, you're possibly risking that of a baby.

[schueys_girl]

pregnancy tests are not really that accurate, and I am not sure really how soon you can use them. Definetly see your doctor because thier tests are accurate...

...how long ago does this happen? Not sure where ur from but have u heard of the morning after pill? I think you can take this up to 3 days after unprotected sex and you can get it from chemists just ask at the desk.

If its after 3 days or so then wait and see what happens with your period. Altho you could be late simply by worrying or by other stresses. Best thing to do, dont panic, go see your doctor asap, speak to parents or your bf (if he is your bf, sorry u just didnt say in the post) and most importantly dont have unprotected sex again!!!

p.s how old r u? x

[kanzaki]

Quote:

There's no way any of us can tell you if you're pregnant or not. I would suggest that you consult your local physician. In addition, since it appears that you're sexually active, you might want to talk to your parent(s).

not to be rude or anything, but i am currrntly 17. i know, in americe, it is ok

but i am in south east asia where people are very very VERY conservative. the legal/the roadside age to have sex is 21. But the usually would be after getting married

anyone find guilty of sex b4 marriege is seriously punished.

if the docter finds out that i am pregnent in this age, i would be sent to the police without ANY questioning. JaIL FOR 48 HOURS. N all of my relative/friends/neigbour/whoever that lives near my house/school will find out.

btw, if my parents find out, i am not only toast, i am skinned. in reality, i will get kicked out of the house. n that's the most lineared punishment. Maybe they will put it up on the newspaper and break all form of relationship with me. in another words, disown me

im not joking or making this up. My friend was innocent n she was rape (in a way) but wat she got was all her family not taking her as a daugher

Quote:

You had sexual intercourse therefore, there's a chance that you might be however, with that being said, just because you had sexual intercourse does not mean you're pregnant.
Either way, the last thing you should be doing is taking any form of medication. Not only are you putting your own health at risk, you're possibly risking that of a baby.

well, not to b cruel, but i dun want the baby. I have a very important exam that will be crutial to my life. In my age, i am still in middle high school. or the secondary high. i am still considered VERY young. If i am found pregnent, i will be thrown out of school. heck, in my country, u will get thrown out of school if u bring handphone (mobile phone) to school twice.

n if this thing gets out, my boyfriend will be thrown into juvienial court for underage rape. Even if i say i am willing to, but i am still underage. In not yet 21

help me please!!!!!

[kanzaki]

Quote:

Originally Posted by schueys_girl

pregnancy tests are not really that accurate, and I am not sure really how soon you can use them. Definetly see your doctor because thier tests are accurate...

...how long ago does this happen? Not sure where ur from but have u heard of the morning after pill? I think you can take this up to 3 days after unprotected sex and you can get it from chemists just ask at the desk.

If its after 3 days or so then wait and see what happens with your period. Altho you could be late simply by worrying or by other stresses. Best thing to do, dont panic, go see your doctor asap, speak to parents or your bf (if he is your bf, sorry u just didnt say in the post) and most importantly dont have unprotected sex again!!!

p.s how old r u? x

actually no. My fren told me that the pill only work in 12 hours. so i tot i pass the time and did not bother to get it...SHIT!!!!!!!!!

i cant go up the desk, i am underage!!!!!!! they will note down ur idendification and name n address too!

it happened a week ago....

I CANNOT GO SEE A DOCTOR!!!!!! I WILL GET THROWN TO JAIL!!!!! it's a law.....

yeah, he is in my bf...

my parents? huh, im lucky if i can make one minute thru it...

[CarlLE108]

If you can, go to your local clinic and get the morning after pill. You have 72 hours to take it from the point you had unsafe sex. The longer you wait, the likelyhood of its effectiveness goes down.

Ps....I went through the same thing, except we took the risk, didn't do the morning after pill, and just hoped that she didn't get pregnant. The past two months she has actually been making herself feel like shes pregnant, but shes not, phew. Girls can easily make themselves feel pregnant, and have all the symptoms, when they actually aren't, because of the fear of possibly being pregnant.

Tip...Don't let guy's do the...."I'll pull out in time" to ya....Your inviting trouble.

CarlLEO108

[kanzaki]

nah. Actually, he said that he felt the semens comic out. And yes, he warn me bout it, but i was too in actasy to stop. N to me, he was speaking france (meaning i didn't pay attention)

n i was the bad girl, i said just do it....

TT_____TT yes, i learned my lesson! help!!!!

[Cybog]

Quote:

Originally Posted by kanzaki

anyone find guilty of sex b4 marriege is seriously punished.

if the docter finds out that i am pregnent in this age, i would be sent to the police without ANY questioning. JaIL FOR 48 HOURS. N all of my relative/friends/neigbour/whoever that lives near my house/school will find out.

btw, if my parents find out, i am not only toast, i am skinned. in reality, i will get kicked out of the house. n that's the most lineared punishment. Maybe they will put it up on the newspaper and break all form of relationship with me. in another words, disown me

The real question is - What was your dumb ass doing having sex then?

Never mind. I really don't care. Regardless of whatever excuse you give it is irrelevant. You obviously have no concern for consequences in life. Perhaps this little experience will change all of that.

Quote:

1) will the pregnency pill help AFTER the intercourse?

No. The only thing you can take after having sex to possibly avoid pregnancy is called "The Day after Pill". Not sure if it is available where you live, but it is here in the U.S. It must be taken, quite obviously, the day after. After that, it's too late.

Quote:

2) um, does the pregnency test work/find out that i am pregnent after only one week?

No. Some tests claim to, but I wouldn't believe them. It generally takes 2-3 weeks at least before the cells have split enough to be considered an actual fetus and the particular type of blood cells enter into your blood stream. (This is a type of cell that the pregnancy tests are basically testing for in your urine.)

The fastest way to find out is from a doctor. They can tell you faster than a home test. But in your case, this isn't really an option.

Quote:

3) any way to abort if i am pregnent? other than going surgery

Yes, there are "alternative" methods. (And I'm not talking about rusty hangers or anything disgusting/painful like that, you sick freaks.)

[schueys_girl]

Really dont know what to say then im afraid with all the contraints on you...not living in a country like yours i really cant think of what to say...

...is there anyone you can go to...a clinic or health centre somewhere? There must be somewhere that you can go for advice because this must happen to otheryoung girls in your country.

Have to say tho mate not meaning to be rude, but if these were all the consequences why did you do it?! If you are pregnant and u do get kicked out of school etc then u will miss this important exam that you mentioned and therefore mess up your future...and of course your boyfriends who will go to jail...

[GiantFigure]

hey..com'n do not think of jail or anything. you will be fine!!!

i would say, visit a doctor (someone you know personally, or whom you can trust), explain the situation about making it a secret thing and ask for the treatment. I guess there are anti-pregnancy pills or something you could use to avoid pregnancy.
Minor thing but i assume your bf is gonna pay for all those expenses if you cannot pay from your pocket-money.

[Cybog]

lol, did you even read the entire thread?

[schueys_girl]

obviously not lol

[Frasbee]

Damn 21?...jail? Those crazy backward asians.

[markkk]

From where country you are? thank god im not a citizen of your country. i cant live without sex.