HELP!! advice for my small gun... - Love Forum

markkk · #1 (**permalink**) 24-01-05, 08:18 PM

I know this is an embarassing post. I admit I have the small peni5.

dont laugh!!!

please help! my question is:::>>
Do you have any tips on how pen1s become bigger and longer? any exercise and rituals? any drugs? I wanna impress my girlfriend.

schueys_girl · #2 (**permalink**) 24-01-05, 08:42 PM

Question: How small are we talking here? Its probably nothing to worry about at all.

Also if your girlfriend is a decent person and cares about you then she wont worry or make comments about the size anyway -x-

markkk · #3 (**permalink**) 24-01-05, 08:45 PM

only 4 inches , what do ya think?

schueys_girl · #4 (**permalink**) 24-01-05, 08:57 PM

4 inches when? flacid or errect? Im not really fussed on size, ive been with blokes with very large penis' (and it ****ing hurt!) and some with a bit smaller and its never really mattered. My boyfriend is above what they deem the average, but i think its more what you during foreplay and sex that matters!

markkk · #5 (**permalink**) 24-01-05, 09:29 PM

4 inches errect... , Lets face it... SIZE really Matters., u think is there any solutions to make this large?

redhead · #6 (**permalink**) 24-01-05, 11:38 PM

No it doesn't always matters I wouldn't be that bothered by size at all. You can do decent things with a small one if you know how to use it.

http://www.penis-website.com/problems_8.html

This might help

BlackRose · #7 (**permalink**) 24-01-05, 11:40 PM

Size only matters if you don't know what you are doing. If a guy has an eight inch penis and just expects things to happen like magic, then his size if just going to get in the way and cause pain. If he knows what he's doing though, the eight inches can be completely amazing. As for a four inch penis, I'd say you shouldn't have a problem with too many girls. Hopefully you are going out with the kind of girl who wont have a problem with your size. Just remember to please her with oral before and after sex if you think that your size isn't enough. There are so many ways of working around this little problem if you think about it. Just make sure that the focus is completely on her when you aren't actually in the act of having sex. You should be fine. May I ask how old you are? If you are still fairly young, you may have some growing yet to do. Let us know (honestly!) how old you are. We wont judge. It will just help us to help you better.

CptnBeefheart · #8 (**permalink**) 26-01-05, 06:06 AM

Yeah, unless your dating the kind of girl who's a slut and really into sex but doesn't know too much then it probably wont matter to her. I don't think there are any ways to get bigger that actually work..the general concensis (sp?) is that most are a flop. Live with it, 4 aint that bad anyway. It's only so deep anyway. Get better at other stuff and act confident, that will more than make up for it. If you're all like I'm so small, I'm a loser, I hope you dont think I have a miniature dick then she's not gunna be too turned on by you. Also, if she isn't very experienced sexually and your the first guy to do stuff with her you might give her the wrong impression...that like small dicks are useless, and you'll come off as immature for fussing about your size.

JennyMac · #9 (**permalink**) 26-01-05, 01:11 PM

I have had both large and small sized men. And honey, I do mean small. I think your four inches would have scared the heck out of the guy I was with at the time. BUT believe it or not! I had an orgasm EVERY TIME I was with him, sometimes twice!
From what I have read, and trust me I looked it up because I didn't understand it, something about the G Spot being easier to reach because it isn't all the way in the back, it's about 3/4 way up. So sometimes smaller guys have a bigger advantage

I have also seen guys so large that you want to jump up and run out of the room, and never once had an orgasm with him, EVER. I think you are panicing for nothing. I am now married, but my husband is about 6" and I have an orgasm every time we are together.
It' ain't the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean. Also see if she would be interested in being on top. You get more penetration that way.

Jenn

Innova · #10 (**permalink**) 26-01-05, 01:28 PM

Im gonna let you in on a secret mark. A womens g-spot is only about 3 inches inward from the front, so your fine as far as that. There are plenty of positions that help the smaller penises and it works well. Its not always about size, if you can understand a women and her needs, and know what your doing....you will work magic. Now the average erect penis is 5 inches. I myself am between 5.5-6", yes a tad above average..but not by means huge, again as you could say...average. I however damn well guarentee you...i've never had a complaint lol.

Even after all this advice, there are natural drugs or stimulaton tech. that help enlarge the penis upto a full inch. That being said however, I would search on the net and find those positions that work well in your favor. Also talk to your girlfriend and see what she thinks, or if she has any ideas. Communication is key!. You and your girlfriend have to be on the same level. Try it out, as long as you have some confidence...i'll think you'll be very surprised

pope · #11 (**permalink**) 27-01-05, 06:18 AM

Don't take this the wrong way but how old are you?
I ask because if you are younger it may still be growing.
That being said if you should find someone who can accept you for who you are and as mentoned above you will still be able to pleasure any woman.

If you are still looking for it to be longer I would not recommend any creams, pills or other wise. Probably the best thing to do would be to get a penis extension which is basically an inch or so of material (sorry I forget what) in the end of a condom (or something that's like a condom.) They're skin toned and look like a penis as well.

The best thing to do however is just be comfortable with who you are, it will make the experience better for both you and your partner.

Frasbee · #12 (**permalink**) 27-01-05, 06:35 AM

We should have a "my dick is too small" sub-forum.

mikef · #13 (**permalink**) 30-01-05, 11:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by markkk

Do you have any tips on how pen1s become bigger and longer? any exercise and rituals? any drugs? I wanna impress my girlfriend.

Try pills for penis enlargement. Some of them are very effective. I was taking Extagen pills and I satisfied with results. My penis gained an additional one inch! Furthermore, my erections are much harder than before.

CBinKC · #14 (**permalink**) 31-01-05, 03:05 AM

Here is my advice. Don’t be ashamed to use sex toys or your fingers or your mouth and fingers. The majority of woman can’t climax during intercourse no matter how big the penis is. There is no shame if finishing a girl off manually after intercourse but don’t make her ask for this. Most women know how fragile the male ego is and won’t ask for you to finish her off out of fear of offending you.

I’ve lost a few lovers from having to take out a toy to finish myself off after intercourse. But, **** them! I wanted to cum too.