| | | Quote of the month: "Sometimes it's a form of love just to talk to somebody that you have nothing in common with and still be fascinated by their presence.
" ~ David Byrne |
| |
| 
23-01-05, 11:43 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 15
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | PLEASE HELP[B]PLEASE HELP! SISTER & SEX VIDEO TAPE![/B] PLEASE HELP! SISTER & SEX VIDEO TAPE!
I found accidently a video tap showing my sister and her boyfriend having sex. It is very explicit. I feel guilty about watching it. I can not look at my sister in the eyes. I do not want anybody else to see it. Should I tell my parents? Should I destroy it? Should I talk to my sister about it? I am so confused. PLEASE HELP> | |
23-01-05, 11:51 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 372
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | definately don't show it to your parents, there are just some things that parents don't need to know, IMO that would be very damaging to her.I would not say anything about it to your sister unless she is of a young age. May I ask how old she is? | |
23-01-05, 11:52 PM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Florida
Posts: 2,233
Thanks: 4
Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
| | | well dont tell your parents! Does your sisisie live at home soon? where is the tape now? Maybe u should let her know that you know i think this is yours or whatever and hand it to her.
__________________
It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone - but it takes a lifetime to forget someone"
People change and forget to tell each other.
| |
23-01-05, 11:53 PM
|  | TV/Movie Trivia Savant | | Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Kansas City, MO
Posts: 26
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | Destroy it! Destroy it! Destroy it!
It can cause nothing but embarrassment for you, your sister and your whole family. To teach your sister a lesson, don’t tell your sister you destroyed it. Let her worry as to where it is and who has it. | |
23-01-05, 11:56 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 15
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | thanks Thanks guys for your help. She is 19. I really feel guilty. I should have stopped it when I saw her having sex, But I was so curious. It did turn me on which I feel sick about that. | |
24-01-05, 12:06 AM
|  | sarah-jayne | | Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: in a house in the uk,newcastle(north east) to be exact
Posts: 127
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | yeah deffinately destroy it.I dont think its the fact you were turned on because it was your sister,so dont worry about that too much.But the fact that it was sexual plainly two people enjoying sex and that is what turned you on not the people involved.Try and relax and act as you normally would around your sister or she will just get suspicious and confront you,which will be hard for the both of you.
__________________  SARAH Everything happens for a reason ,it's just up to us to find the reason | |
24-01-05, 12:06 AM
|  | Phillyboy | | Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: New Orleans, Louisiana
Gender: 
Posts: 10,016
Thanks: 449
Thanked 735 Times in 517 Posts
| | | First of all, I'd like to know where you found this tape. I don't imagine it was just sitting out in the open. By watching the tape all the way through you definitely did damage to yourself. If you ask me, I would destroy the tape, throw it in the trash, and never look back. I doubt your sister will come to you asking of it's whereabouts. Plus this will prevent you from ever developing the temptation to watch it again (afterall you did say it turned you on). It's too bad you couldn't have just found normal porn like most other kids.
__________________ Heil Frasbee | |
24-01-05, 12:19 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 15
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | found it between some books i got so curios so i had to have a look. I did not expect that either. | |
24-01-05, 12:34 AM
|  | atada a mis pies. | | Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: 45 degrees away.
Posts: 10,455
Thanks: 1,351
Thanked 1,244 Times in 932 Posts
| | | <---lmao!
that is so funny. well, funny for me anyway...
i think you should get rid of it forever. burn it in the fireplace, run over it with your car, whatever. do not show it to your parents and do not sell it on ebay and do not let her know that you saw an amateur porno starring her and it turned you on. | |
24-01-05, 12:35 AM
|  | Schuey's Co Driver | | Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: UK
Posts: 287
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | stop worrying for a start its not really your fault...not like you were snooping around looking for something dodgy. Definetely do not tell you parents...they dont want to see it and it will achieve nothing.
Im sure your pretty aware that most 19 year olds have sex with thier boyfriends, you just dont want to see it! If you cant look at your sister in the eye then you need to talk to her to get it out in the open.
Just say you found the tape looked to see what it was but turned it off as soon as you realised what it was... u dont need to say you explicitly saw her having sex. And then just say be more careful where she leaves the tapes! She doesnt want mom or dad or nan etc finding the next one! 
__________________
******* 7 Times World Champion Michael Schumacher - the ultimate sporting hero ******* | |
24-01-05, 12:36 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 15
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | funny! of course I can not say that to her. I will lose her respect for ever. | |
24-01-05, 12:42 AM
| | Schuey's Co Driver | | Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: UK
Posts: 287
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | ok fair enuff then, are u older or younger than her? To be fair i dont have any brother or sisters but if something like this happened and i couldnt look at them, i would have to say something because who else are you going to tell to get over it?! xx
__________________
******* 7 Times World Champion Michael Schumacher - the ultimate sporting hero ******* | |
24-01-05, 12:49 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 15
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | problem! the problem is I try to avoid her because every time I look at her, I can see certain images which I do not interested in, but I just can not help it. I never looked at her as a girl, but now it is not the same. I hope time will remove these images from my memory. any idea how to deal with that? | |
24-01-05, 02:06 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 15
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| | | thanks to everybody specially, schueys girl, she is excellent! the best! | |
24-01-05, 02:35 AM
| | Phillyboy | | Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: New Orleans, Louisiana
Gender:
Posts: 10,016
Thanks: 449
Thanked 735 Times in 517 Posts
| |
Originally Posted by Dr-Sami the problem is I try to avoid her because every time I look at her, I can see certain images which I do not interested in, but I just can not help it. I never looked at her as a girl, but now it is not the same. I hope time will remove these images from my memory. any idea how to deal with that? Those images have already been burned into your brain. The best thing to do now is to get a lobotomy.
__________________ Heil Frasbee | |
| Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes | Rate This Thread |  Linear Mode | |
Posting Rules
| You may not post new threads You may not post replies You may not post attachments You may not edit your posts
HTML code is Off | | |
All times are GMT +8. The time now is 02:09 PM.
| |
