sexual miscommunication

[theman2004]

me and my girlfriend are having a lil bit of a miscommunication....i love it when she gives me head. its the second best feeling up next to makin love to her. her ex bf of 3 years was an idiot and practically forced her to do it when she never wanted to and made it a horrible experience. now, because of it i feel guilty and greedy whenever i ask her to even tho she says she enjoys doin it to me. even after she tells me this i still feel bad....i try to explain it to her but she thinks shes doing something wrong which isnt the case, its just something wrong with me..i just want her to do it when we're during foreplay because it gets me ready for sex..any other time i can ask....my question is is there any way i can explain it to her to get her to do it without me asking....

[Laguna]

Don't ask her to do it. Let her do it on her own and then maybe you won't feel so bad.

[D'Artagnan]

or return the favour. that should assuage your guilt a bit.

[Pondman]

Give her a list of thing you like and then have her surpise you. Thats the best thing-- suprises. Try giving her a good strawing-- and see if she can't stop screaming. It will put stars in her eyes and she'll do anything for you after that.

[rustafarian1]

whats strawing?