the next move

[harobiker]

i have been goin out with this girl for a while and i want to start doin more stuff like finger her and my friend told that she said she was scared she didnt know how to make the next move so i want to know how

[Laguna]

You got to get her worked up. Just start rubbing her thighs and slowly rub around the area and kiss her and stuff, it will show her you want to do something, then either SLOWLY (remember, slow is more comfortable, plus way more sexy) - then just slid a hand down her pants, etc. You don't have to take off her pants or anything...

This is from a fingering expert^ aka - me, LOL...seriously, all my g/f's and girls i've fingered said I was the best ever and several girls liked my fingering better then sex. If you need anymore advice, such as how to hit the G-Spot, etc. just ask...

[BlackRose]

make sure she doesn't have her hymen still dude... that could get messy

[Necrid]

someone is thinks high and mighty of themselves

but the man has a point, about the fingering part any whoo

but personally I prefer having at least the zipper undone so I have alittle more wiggle room for my fingers, but that just depends on how big your fingers/hand is

one more word of advice, follow the moans as best you can and the louder the moan, the better your doing

[Laguna]

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Originally Posted by Necrid

one more word of advice, follow the moans as best you can and the louder the moan, the better your doing

True. I also prefer the zipper undone, but if you have to quickly get your hand out and not look like anything was happening in a short time, it's better to leave the pants on. It all depends on how tight the pants are.

[harobiker]

wat do i do if she still does have her hymen

[Necrid]

hmmm...

not quite sure, I've been lucky enough not to run into that problem, ask the expert ^_^

[Laguna]

That means she still a virgin and if you don't take it nice, it would hurt bad. It's the same as having sex with a virgin. (Hymen = Cherry). I'm also sure a girl would rather lose her virginity to sex rather then being fingered.

[harobiker]

okay wat would happen is i fingered her b/c i now she still has her hymen b/c she has never done any thing like that before and he her friends say she want me to be the one do stuff with her b/c she loves me

[Necrid]

hmmm... well then your options are then:

1. having sex with her
2. switching your fingers to your tongue
3. or use your pinky

but to your situation, I think you should switch to the tongue

[IKnowEverything]

Haro, you sound way to frail to be doing this.

Get a ****ing clue.

[Laguna]

Seriously. Also, Necrid, would you like to give a girl oral while she bleeds on/in your mouth? Cause when you are the first to have sex with a girl that's a virgin, she will bleed more then likely. The best bet is have sex with her and break her in before fingering her, lol.

[BlackRose]

Get her to break it herself when she is alone, home and comfortable. It's the least she can do to help the experience along.

Seriously though, haro. You sound like you are maybe 12 or 13. You shouldn't be thinking about this stuff. Just kiss her and enjoy it. If she is nervous, leave her the heck alone. You're kids! Enjoy childhood. lol

[rustafarian1]

dude ur hymen can be broken easily. like if shes ever ridden a horse or does gymnastics ar dances. if shes over 14 years old u should be cool dude. plus u might as well pop it now better than later

[abercromqt20]

i was fingered when i was younger. and it didn't pop my cherry as they say. so it won't always happen.