Sex Complicates things...help

[K3vMySt3r]

hey u guys i tried to think i can do this myself and friends for advice but nothing is working... i'm with my gf for 4 months now actually tomorrow will be our 4th month being together... the problem is that i'm intimate with my gf and after we do intimate things she feels all down and etc. making me feel something is wrong... i think i have a problem in which i am sexually active... its just that i know everytime we do "KINKY" things we get into sad and down times... and yeah i know u'll be lyke.. than stop it but the problem is i can't... i can't tell myself that i just let go of myself... this problem has been going on for the past 3 months... i know its messing up the relationship.. is there nething i can do? help me out here guys as i helped u... my 1st post actualy i mostly help people but i'd guess its time i need u're help... i'm a 19 year old and for my gf im' her 1st REAL bf and 1st lover.. plz help thx u

[Frasbee]

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[Dymondgirl]

The best thing I can tell you to do is talk to her..ask her why she feels "down" tell her not 2 b afraid 2 talk about your sex life 2gether. Its so very important to be able to talk about everything without one of you feeling uncomfortable. Ask her what makes her feel good and if there is anything she would like to do with you. If she doesn't open up it's not your fault!

[mhussain]

xactly . Dymondgirl is right,

if she feels down after agreeing to hace sex with u and then doesnt tell u after having sex why she feels down, then she has some problems. even after u asking her what, if she doesnt tell u then it is simply a case of that u can do nothing . i am not saying that u can just keep having sex with her and not feel concerned when she feels down, but yes do talk to her and keep asking.

Hussain