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01-03-05, 08:43 AM
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| | | Men and Porn I know that most men look at porn, but can you guys break it down for me so that I can understand a little better as to why? I can understand it for particular, occassional use...but what about the daily, just looking sort of thing? When you are in a happy, fulfilling relationship what purpose does it serve? Is there a line on what is going to far?
I am not naive on the subject and know the general fair about "men being visually stimulated", but was hoping for a bit more info on it.
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01-03-05, 09:03 AM
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| | | For me, I watch porn for the things I'd like to do, but can't really cause either:
A) The girl isn't open to the idea.
or
B) They are things I know I couldn't bring myself to do.
Not to say I watch crazy porn. But I'm in general not a violent person and if I think I'm bringing even a little bit of pain to my partner I feel bad. | |
01-03-05, 09:18 AM
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Originally Posted by TheRealPsiPhi For me, I watch porn for the things I'd like to do, but can't really cause either:
A) The girl isn't open to the idea.
or
B) They are things I know I couldn't bring myself to do.
Not to say I watch crazy porn. But I'm in general not a violent person and if I think I'm bringing even a little bit of pain to my partner I feel bad. So you are living out your fantasies vicariously. That is helpful information, thanks.
What about just your vanilla looking at naked chics sort of thing? | |
01-03-05, 09:32 AM
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| | | helps the imagination | |
01-03-05, 01:25 PM
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| | | No, it's usually to whack off.
No, it's always to whack off.
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01-03-05, 03:00 PM
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| | I use for porn for one reason... and I believe bohemiandonut has already covered it 
I'm in a loving relationship, but sometimes I'm horny and my girl isn't there... or for some reason or another is not available in that way. | |
01-03-05, 03:40 PM
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| | | it's the natural male desire to spread his chromosomes to as many females as he can. this is also true among many other animals, which is why reguardless of how good your relationships is, you'll always take notice of an attractive female.
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01-03-05, 10:13 PM
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| | | I'm not a man... but i've never watched porn before...
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01-03-05, 10:36 PM
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| | | Erm.. actually looking at porn does help give more ideas and techniques on sex. Its just that most girls actually thought its disgusting and repulsive.
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01-03-05, 11:19 PM
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| | | 1. Practice Lasting longer
2. To whack off
3. Get some new ideas to do with my girl
4. Its like a tease of what you cant get hehe | |
03-03-05, 01:56 PM
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Originally Posted by koolus I'm not a man... but i've never watched porn before...
well i'm another male that LOVES his porn. any others want to raise their hands up with me in unity??
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04-03-05, 12:19 AM
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| | *raises hand!
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04-03-05, 12:31 AM
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| | | Why watch porn when I have Rose? lol | |
04-03-05, 02:17 AM
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| | | But if you are not jacking off, what is the purpose? Why do some men want to look at naked pics constantly? There is no judgement here, I am just trying to understand what purpose it serves in a non-masturbation sense. | |
04-03-05, 05:02 AM
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| | *doesn't raise hand*  Not ALL men watch porn.
I've got a few buddies that watch porn and I ask them why? They just say that it's what everyone does. It's been a social acceptance that if most guys do it, join the club. Personally I'm not into porn. Sex is not everything, which seems to be what a lot of people think. | |
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