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07-03-05, 04:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Only-virgins NO, You can be in love with someone with out ever even once spoken with them. Well it depends how well you know that person.
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Originally Posted by KirstyM Well it depends how well you know that person. If you have never spoke with them....there is little you can know.
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07-03-05, 04:07 PM
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| | | So how exactly can you be in love with somebody you know little about?
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07-03-05, 04:10 PM
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Originally Posted by KirstyM So how exactly can you be in love with somebody you know little about? Because love has nothing to do with knowing the person. It is all chemicals in the brain.
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07-03-05, 04:13 PM
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| | | Nahh. If you have feelings towards someone you do not know, it is not love, it's lust, it's an attraction, which is the chemicals you are talking about. But that is not love.
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07-03-05, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted by KirstyM Nahh. If you have feelings towards someone you do not know, it is not love, it's lust, it's an attraction, which is the chemicals you are talking about. But that is not love. Then I am not capable of your defined "love". I get bored of ALL people's personalities.
I already knew you were going to say this.
I just do not like it when people call it infatuation what I call love.
I might as well call attachement what others call love.
For (by other peoples definition) infatuation is the strongest feeling I have ever felt. That is enough for me to call it love.
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07-03-05, 04:18 PM
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| | | Just because you are yet to experience love does not mean you are incapable of it nor does it mean the infatuation that you have felt can be defined as love
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Originally Posted by KirstyM Just because you are yet to experience love does not mean you are incapable of it nor does it mean the infatuation that you have felt can be defined as love What is love then? The magic question.
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07-03-05, 04:21 PM
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| | | Maybe you'll find out one day.
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Originally Posted by KirstyM Maybe you'll find out one day. or not.
I was told the same thing when I said "there is no god". Someone then replied with "you will find him one day". That sounds like a front for something that is not there. It leaves you wondering and guessing when in reality the thing you will wait for will not come because it is something people just made up. Facts and things that are real have a clear definiton...do you not think so?
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07-03-05, 04:32 PM
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| | | Well love is fairly indescribable. You can try but nobody else is really going to understand until they experience it themselves. God on the other hand... well, I'm atheist, enough said.
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07-03-05, 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted by KirstyM Well love is fairly indescribable. You can try but nobody else is really going to understand until they experience it themselves. God on the other hand... well, I'm atheist, enough said. I wasnt bringing god up. I was just using that as an example because it fit to " you will find out one day" saying. What happens if the infatuation,lust,obsession is stronger and prefered over the "love" feeling that I have not felt yet?
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07-03-05, 04:37 PM
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| | | But infatuation is like one of the stages before love, and completely different, so I cant imagine somebody thinking 'oh I prefer being infatuated so Ill try staying in that stage and not falling in love' if that makes any sense at all
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07-03-05, 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted by KirstyM But infatuation is like one of the stages before love, and completely different, so I cant imagine somebody thinking 'oh I prefer being infatuated so Ill try staying in that stage and not falling in love' if that makes any sense at all I know exactly what you are saying. The problem is that if infatuation is the initiative to a relationship then in a sense infatuation is love. The rest that comes after is just getting to know the person (a.k.a attachment). Your then just attached and infatuated. I still see no love. I think infatuation and those anxiety feelings ARE love and the rest is just attempts at trying to stay with the infatuated person. Knowing a person has alot more to do with friendship then love.
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07-03-05, 04:50 PM
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| | | But how can you love someone while not knowing them? It's an enjoyable stage of the relationship but I wouldnt determine it as love. To be honest I think if you havent actually gone past the infatuation stage then you cant really know. It's like a blind man attempting to describe the concept of colour.
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