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26-04-05, 10:40 AM
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26-04-05, 02:37 PM
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26-04-05, 09:04 PM
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| | | My God, your boyfriend is definetely perverted.. VERY perverted.. That's just disgusting.. Please stop making excuses for him! He's not worth it..
By the way.. I know this guy who said some of the same things that your boyfriend said.. He's "only" 26 though, but girls at 13-14 turns him on, more than anything else.. He tried to convince me (I wasn't convinced) that it is TOTALLY normal to masturbate and be turned on by girls this age.. And he said that every (heterosexual) guy is turned on by them, if they say they ain't, they're lying! This is bullshit, and eventually I found out that this guy had some serious mental problemes, but that's another story.. What made me really sick is that he actually had sex with a girl at the age of 14 (he was 25 then), which is not only sick, but also very illegal (one can get several years in prison for this where I live, even though it wasn't a rape)
Your boyfriend may also have had sex with girls under the age of 16, and if he hasn't he probably will some day.. These girls can often easily be fooled by older men.. | | 
26-04-05, 10:06 PM
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| | | Just to put things in perspective for you, I'm 25 and I don't dare look at girls my brother's age or younger and he's 21! Something about that just doesn't feel right cuz I always see my bro as my little bro, and girls his age, well, they're just little. 12-16 :| NEVER! And also, what area's do these men live. I need to make a mental note to come around there if I ever have a daughter....lol | | 
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| | Well, It's nice to hear that you don't agree  The guy I knew (cut all contact because he's a total psycho) lives in Scandinavia, so Snipaa, I don't think you have to worry about him..  Unfortunately, these men mentioned here is not the only ones thinking like this *scared*
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26-04-05, 11:11 PM
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| | | Your boyfriend is obviously on his ass.
You know what he is doing is wrong.
The point that he looks at these kinda photos suggests that he's a little wonky. Yet, that aside, isn't the fact that he openly masturbates over other females is enough for you to think, 'hmm, maybe he's not quite right for me...' and get rid of the shithouse?!
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26-04-05, 11:14 PM
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| | | Exactly, if you got the real woman to XXX.... why masterbate?...lol | | 
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| | | He's a pedophile it's disgusting. No adult should be masturbating to children, or looking at pics of children in a sexual way. | | 
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| | | You guys are right. I am happy to know there are still normal people in the world. I was nervous getting perverted answers on this site, but all were very good. I have hope again that not all guys are like this. I am definately getting out of the relationship. I know he has been lyeing about his age in computer chatrooms, and calling like 16-17 year olds to have phone sex. I feel, even if a girl is 18 years old and legal to be with, men should still look at women close to their own age. I mean, what is he thinking when he looks in the mirror and sees a 40 year old man? He lives in a fantasy world that I do NOT want to be a part of!! | | 
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old enough to cross the road... old enough to get banged.
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28-04-05, 01:51 AM
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Originally Posted by Illusional friz...
old enough to cross the road... old enough to get banged.
raverboy Hahaha, nice.
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28-04-05, 03:26 AM
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| | | Sicko.. Dump his ass and find someone better | | 
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Originally Posted by jasmeen20 My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years (he is almost 41 and I am 29). We have gone to nudist places before as a non-sexual activity, just to relax and we know families from these resorts. Recently, I found under the bed a folder of pictures of very young girls about 12-16. Some were teens from the family we know that were taken on our trips. I have found him very often masturbating to the photos. He doesn't know I know about it. I feel disgusted like I am dating some pervert. He has mentioned to me that all men masturbate to girls this age. Am I out of line by being opposed to this? He obviously digs younger women if he's with you. But kiddie porn is nasty. *shiver* 
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Originally Posted by jasmeen20 Thanks for the the great advice everybody. I agree that I should leave because I do not want to feel like this anymore. I really feel sick when I see this. I do think 12 is entirely waayy to young, but just for future reference, what age do you think it is acceptable to masturbate to nude pictures. For instance, what if a girl is 13 but looks pretty developed. Would that be considered okay? Where should I draw the line? I realize most of you are still young. Consider the fact that he is almost 41. Well, I'm of an age w/him & I think he's pretty sick. I wouldn't even confront him, just find a way to dump him easy. I think that all healthy men (if straight) will LOOK at young girls; of course, human nature. But to actively whack off to them requires ACTIVE CHOICE. Especially if this is SOMEONE YOU KNOW (neighbours kids, you said?). This is what freaks me. Ummm, Jeffry Dahmer wanna-be... anyone... hell-lo?? DUMP HIS F*CKED ASS ASAP!! AND WARN THEIR PARENTS! | | 
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| | Indigosoul: Do you seriously think that every healthy man look at 12-year old girls in a sexual way?! Cause she's talking about girls between 12 and 16..
Maybe I'm naive to believe that every straight guy doesn't look at 12-year old girls (sexually), but if this is true I wanna be lesbian  | | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes | Rate This Thread | Linear Mode | |
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